It take me hours to get orgasm while masturbation....I am a virgin and my age is in late 20s, Is it normal plz help.........thanks in advance.
2007-01-15 17:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by Simple 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Some how I get the feeling you are a man, though you are in your late 20's and still a virgin.
2007-01-15 18:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked for girls only but I used to work as a RN and have some personal experience. Are you taking an antidepressant?. One of the common side effects of SSRI's (Selective Serotonin Re-uptake Inhibitor) is anorgasmia (difficulty achieving orgasm). There is also some decrease in sensitivity with anorgasmia.
I would check with your doctor about this. If it is a side effect, it's possible that a different medication will not have that side effect.
Also, there might be some medications to help with this. I hope this helps. I have the same problem and it's very frustrating. Viagra helps for me but I don't know if it helps women.
There is also DHEA and Yohimbe Bark. Both of these do not need prescriptions and may be of some help.
2007-01-15 18:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 20:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a state of high arousal the whole time, i wouldnt say its normal at all. not "hours" anyway..
is your body lubricated enough? i have found that if we arent then it doesnt seem to feel as good. if you arent, then you could buy some ky jelly. or if you're too embarrassed to do that, i'll tell ya a secret lol: spit. it works just as well...
also try experimenting with different things, different ways of touching, various depths or shallowness. if you havnt been masterbating for very long you just may not have found what works for you yet.
just lay back, relax, and enjoy it. if you put pressure on yourself to orgasm faster than your body is ready to, it will make it even harder to orgasm, trust me on that. you just have to go with the flow.
if none of this works, you might want to schedule an appt with you OBGYN for a regular check up and pap smear.
good luck x
2007-01-15 17:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not unusual to take a long time to orgasm as women do not always orgasm as fast as men do even with masturbation. You might want to try using a vibrator on your clitoris to see if that speeds things up for you.
2007-01-15 17:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I have been having sex for fourteen years and still haven't had an orgasm. So maybe I should try playing with myself to try to finally have one. When I am having a really hot dream they just come naturally. I admire you for still being a virgin. I am 29 years old and at my sexual peek. I will be so glad when I can just have one during sex.
2007-01-15 18:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this out on Female Masturbation.
2007-01-15 19:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by lovelywhite3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERES NOTHING NOT NORMAL ABOUT IT BUT DO U REALLY GET THAT EXITED WITH UR SELF!!! SEE TO ME AN ORGASM IS EVERYTHING 4RM THE MOOD TO THE PERSON ,2 HOW EXITED U ARE ITS RARE FOR ME TO EVEN GET ONE WHEN I HAVE SEX WITH MY BF!!! ITS NOT JUST ABOUT HOW GOOD THE SEX IS BUT WHAT MOOD IM IN!! AND I HAVE MY OWN WAYS OF GETTING THEM MAYBE U SHOULD TRY IT WITH SOMEONE AND SEE HOW THAT WORKS!! I MEAN U KNOW WHAT PLEASES U AND HOW U LIKE IT SO WHAT SO HARD??? U NEED SOMEONE!!!
2007-01-15 18:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by lizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin makes no difference. You need to relax, and learn what your body enjoys. Stop worrying asbout how long it takes, but rather focus on what gives you pleasure. RELAX and ENJOY
2007-01-15 17:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by feeras1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your surroundings matter too. Light some candles, tone down the lights.. anything to make u feel comefortable. dun be reading or doing work when masturbating.
2007-01-15 21:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by yminisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋