im a really jealous person. i get jealous of my friends all the time over just about anything. i have a hard time hanging out with them because i always find someone to get jealous over or i get myself mad at them for something stupid, and i know its just because im being stupid and jealous. it gets me down because i can never just relax and have a good time. helpppp meeee pleaseee
2007-01-15 17:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jealousy is a very negative emotion.. it can show lack of trust.. possessiveness... obsession... etc... I have had a few problems in my lifetime with this emotion and it has brought me nothing but trouble and loss of some loved ones... I lost a fiance' over it too...
I have been really jealous of many things and have had to learn the hard way that it was simply a waste of time and energy! If I were you I would try to realize what makes you feel that way.. and then change your attitude and feelings about those things! I can tell you that you will feel much better and your friends will be much more happy to have you around... you will all have a better time! I guarantee it... the time and unhappiness you are wasting right now is just not worth it! It's time to unwind, relax and enjoy yourself and your friends! You will be glad you did so start now!
2007-01-15 18:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to a therapist and find out why you are behaving this way. Are you feeling very insecure about something? Look at yourself in the mirror and ask why am I jealous, what makes me feel so angry. Get help if you can't answer.
2007-01-16 02:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what your question?
i think you need to sit down and think of what it is you get jealous about it must be something simple and just think about why it is you feel that way honey theres nothing wrong with wanting what you dont have but theres no reason for the jealousy specialy if its towards your friends im sure that you have wonderful things that they want and dont have if fact im sure of it so just let it go your bringing yourself on this live your life dont live it by others
2007-01-16 01:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way sometimes. For me, it is usually due to anxiety about something. Try to pinpoint what that something is, acknowledge it, and deal with it as best as you can. Ask friends and/or family for help if you must.
2007-01-16 02:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel.
it's just one of those things you have to slowly try to get yourself out of. it stems from self-consciousness and the more you become prouder of who YOU are as a person, the less you will be jealous of what other people have.
2007-01-16 02:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just as jealous as you!
Just accept who you are and enjoy who your friends are.
Don't take everything so seriously, relax, enjoy life!
2007-01-16 01:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋