my girl feels she is not satisfying me if i take a long time (1hr or more) to get off, but i don't w/ my ex 1/2 hr,45min is there a prob
2007-01-15 17:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by kaptkert 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Wow you are amzing person. How can you do that!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 05:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should let her know how to please you. Also, I was just reading this site that said that if you're circumcised, you are likely to have problems getting off:
http://www.sexasnatureintendedit.com/
I just ordered the book, so I can't really say much else about it. But I'm cut and I've noticed that it takes me a long time to get off sometimes too. They say that some improvement can be gained by restoring our foreskins. There's lots of info online about it. One place that has a good reputation is http://www.norm.org/ The reasons for circumcision are suspect. It is possible for a natural man to spread HPV (which can cause cancer, in particular cervical cancer in women) more easily than cut men, but there's a vaccine for that now. And you can get other STDs more easily if you're natural, but you have no business relying on circumcision to blunt the risk of something you should know better than to do in the first place.
If you still have problems, consider your diet. If you are malnourished, you will not be as excitable as usual. Good night!
2007-01-16 03:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girl not to take it personal, because a lot of guys can be enjoying it but not quite get to that peek as fast as others. Then again maybe you both have different sexual fantasies and so you are both trying to please to different type of fantasies at the same time. Or if you had too much to drink that could cause a delay in ejaculation, but for one thing you don't have a problem it takes some guys longer than others, same goes for chics. If you want to ejaculate faster then you should in a non-offensive way train her to please you the way you want to be pleased.
2007-01-16 01:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by hardygirl_1988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it take you this long when you masturbate or receive oral sex? if so, then this is a biological or medical issue..
or, if you ejaculated thru masturbation prior to sex, then it will take longer as you need to recharge and reload the sperm and semen thru your system.
or you know, i honestly have no experience of this, but i have heard that some vaginas are different, and could be you just aren't getting as much friction when you rub inside her, so that may be why it takes longer..
but gee, most girls would prefer to have longer sex.. most would love to have a guy do it for an hour! tell her it has nothing to do with her turning you on.. tell her it is a body issue.
2007-01-16 01:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, i don't really know if there is anything wrong with you or not, but if you ask me you are any women's sexual dream! Maybe your ex turns you on more and gets the blood flowing a little faster. Or if you are cheating with her then maybe it's just the pure excitement of getting caught turning you on a little more.
2007-01-16 02:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by ginlu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be heading that way, see a doctor about it, a urologist specializes in problems like that.
2007-01-16 03:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should count yourself lucky, in that time you can satisfy them again and again and again.
2007-01-16 02:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's normal...your just not a minute man
2007-01-16 01:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Asia G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya! ;-) means your gay!
2007-01-16 10:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by chris wick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋