okay so im really confuzed,because i dont know whether to come oput of the closet or not?...im not sure if im bi or gay......i dont know how i would go about comin out....does anyone have any advise on how to and wen the time is right???.....but my biggest concern is my best friend...i like him but he says he is straight but i dont know how straight since hes let me do things to him....but we've never really talked about it or anything.....im scared that he might not want to be friends after he finds out not because he wont like me but because some of his jock friends might think he is gay or sumthin even though he might be bi,,,,but he doesnt like ppl thinkin it......im scared and i dont know wat to do?
2007-01-15 17:23:46 · 11 answers · asked by Gamerz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your not gay. Society is just putting ideas in your head. But Sexuality is learned. So if you keep doing things to your friend then your going to sexually respond to that. You will probably most likely ruin your friendship if you come out of the closet.
2007-01-15 17:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to come out at all if you don't want to. It's your business and nobody else's. If you're not sure, just give it some time and maybe talk to God about it. If you do come out as either straight, bisexual, or homosexual, people will categorize you and put certain expectations on you and you may be forced to act or dress or walk or talk a certain way. Don't be pressured by anyone. It's your choice. And if you trying something for a while and you don't like it, then you can change back whenever you want to.
2007-01-15 17:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think you should talk to your friend about it. Stop doing things to him, you can go to jail for that. I think it would be best if you don't come out of the closet until you are much older, and not so confused. You are probably straight, but something has happened to you to make you unsure about it. If your under 25 years old, your brain hasn't finished growing yet. Give it some more time. Best wishes.
2007-01-15 17:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it when it feels right to you. And, uh... yeah, you're gay! not bi... Forget about what you're "supposed" to be and just be honest with yourself. As a completely straight guy, I can also tell you that I would NEVER let a gay guy touch me in the way you probably touched your friend. As a result, I'd say that your friend is probably gay, too. If he's your friend, even if he's NOT gay, you should be able to be honest with him and he shouldn't judge you. If you're not sure you're ready to come out yet, then just wait until you are.
2007-01-15 17:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal that we experienced identity crisis. It is the moment we are discovering ourselves that would go beyond the expectation of our society so it is a matter of acceptance. You could go wild and explore or follow the trend/traditional culture.
If you want to reveal yourself / your feelings. The best moment is when you are able to gather your guts and willing to accept all the consequences that entails to it. maybe, your bestfriend is a bisexual or something.. but he is afraid to accept the fact (the Truth hurts isn'T?) but we could only consider that he doesn't want to be questioned to his gender. Man has tendency to act like a feminine but still they are masculine in terms of their interest ( i mean they still longing for having relationship with a woman) as of now if you are still confuse just act naturally in which you are comfortable then wait for the moment you truly understand the situation ;) well then GOODLUCK and may you truly understand yourself.
2007-01-15 17:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by the wanderer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all you need to be sure about who you are and what you want do not be afraid to explore take your time , look in to finding others who are feeling like this there may be an outreach program where you live and who ever you confide in make sure there someone you can trust.
Your feelings are very normal and there are more like you . take your time and things will work out. most of all you need to know your not alone and this is all a part of growing up.
2007-01-15 17:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by danngazz67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 05:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by shimp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is don't be touching your friend no matter how much you like him. Figure out if your gay or bi, and he needs to figure out if he is gay or bi, and wouldn't it be tiresome to stay in the closet?
2007-01-15 17:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by amazon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself and do what you think is right. It shouldn't matter what others think about your sexual orientation. If they can't deal with it regardless of what you are, then they aren't the right friends in the first place.
2007-01-15 17:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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here it is:
Its just one of those days
When you don't wanna wake up
Everything is ******
Everybody sux
You don't really know why
But want justify
Rippin' someone's head off
No human contact
And if you interact
Your life is on contract
Your best bet is to stay away ************
It's just one of those days!!
[chorus]
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit
Lettin' **** slip
Or you'll be leavin with a fat lip
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit talkin that ****
(Punk, so come and get it)
Its just one of those days
Feelin' like a freight train
First one to complain
Leaves with a blood stain
Damn right I'm a maniac
You better watch your back
Cuz I'm ******' up your program
And if your stuck up
You just lucked up
Next in line to get ****** up
Your best bet is to stay away ************
Its just one of those days!!
[chorus]
I feel like ****
My suggestion is to keep your distance cuz right now im dangerous
We've all felt like ****
And been treated like ****
All those motherfuckers that want to step up
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break your ******' face tonight!!
Give me somethin' to break
How bout your ******' face
I hope you know I pack a chain saw, what!!...
2007-01-15 17:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋