My family was very happy for nearky 15 years. However, the passion in live is loosing. My husband betrayed me to date with another woman. He told me that he found more exciting in the new love comparing with our current love. I agrred with his decision because I always want love in family. How do you feel when you was in my situation? What can I do for my better future?
2007-01-15 17:16:57 · 7 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is very hard in the beginning trust me...but in time it will work out for the better. In my divorce it made me a stronger woman and I am proud of who I am and what I do. My ex and his girlfriend did not work out and when he asked to come back it was too late. Felt good turning him down...I cant lie about that_
2007-01-15 17:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant make your man stay but he should not have it that easy he still has responsibilities with his current family such as you and any kids you may have. Sometimes the attraction is the newness of a relationship such as the courtship and the sex. The new relationship is not bogged down with the same things yours is like responsibilities etc. However what he fails to see is that the new relationship will eventually move onto responsibilities and the romance will die there as well. Instead of seeking new love your man should be putting that energy towards reigniting your relationship. 15 years is a long time. It is natural for you to feel sad and grieve re his decision. Take it slow, seek out someone to talk to you will have both bad and good days and then finally you will get to recovery. Be kind to yourself you deserve it. Many a woman who goes through this suffers for a while but suddenly they blossom. Blossom so much that you look real good and he wants to come back. The ultimate power here is rejecting that want.
2007-01-15 17:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy but i gotta say that after 15 years people do let passion slide a little maybe this will be a good wake up call for yu to make sure that dosnt happen again keep the passion alive . Him i cant help now only you so Get into something to find out what you need to improve on and belive me hes doing his thing now now you do yours get it behind yu and hold your head up honey youll be in good shape in no time
2007-01-15 17:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by bone g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him with the other woman and take him for all he's worth.
2007-01-15 17:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by lostfan32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get lots of money from him now
2007-01-15 17:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st thing. How can you agree to your husband, if you want more love in your family? How can he love you, if he seeing someone else? My ex-husband left me with two small kids to be with another woman. He even thought it would be nice to tell me that he wanted to marry this woman that had 3 kids by 3 different men. He would even drive her car to my mom's house to see our kids and even at times have the woman in the car with him when he came. When he get mad at her, he would talk about her to me, until I put a stop to him bad mouthing her to me. Knowing that he had bad mouthed me to her. When he lefted me for her I felt no life in my body for about 2 weeks. It was hard to move on with my kids. I had to explane to my kids that they wouldn't wake up to see their dad, I felt angry all of the time and very unloved. I even felt like there was something wrong with me, that he couldn't love me. After I made an attemp to regain my life back, I found temp. comfort in a man from my high school days. It took my mind off the hurt and placed it in other ways. I took another step and went back to school, that didn't work out, every job that I had I didn't hold, they all lasted about 7 months. I use to let him come by to see the kids and if he wanted to touch me, I would ket him, just to feel the love from him. Until oneday I began to feel dirty when he touched me. I began to pray to God that he would help me, He did. I foolishly married again. That lasted 6 mos. He was abusive. My 1st husband had the nerve to say ''You don't deserve to be treated like this''. I asked him was I deserving of the way he treated me? He never wanted to spend time with our kids and he would take their childsupport and spend it on this woman. Well, He ended up marring her friend and having a kid meanwhile his behavior toward me and our kids got worst. Now he's married again and is on his 4th kid. Now the 2nd wife son and my son is acting out, mainly because their father is nolonger in their lives and barely have anything to do with them. My son is 15 now and really detest his father. I felt used, degraded, publicly shamed, held hostage to allot of pain and anger, worthless and unattractive. God turned it around for me. My life is better and he use to aplojize each year for how he treated me, but yet he still can't seem to stop bad mouthing me to every wife he have. I have forgiven him and moved on. My kids have had therapy and so have I. I know this hurt,but you have to take that step to free yourself from this emotional abusive man.If he wanted more excitement... then he should have spoke to you about spicing things up. Don't you dare think that there is something wrong with you. It's himself that need to change. If it won't be that excuse, it would be something else. Care for your kids, because they are gonna need allot of love and so will you. Don't allow him to walk over you just to save your family. Honey your family is already broken.He's not gonna stop, why stop when you got the best of both worlds?You lost passion, because he lost his love for you. Move on. Get child support and alimony from him. I bet that other woman won't find him so exciting with a broke wallet. GOOOOOD LUCK TO YOU AND ALLOT OF LOVE. Oh it felt just like I had died and gone to hell.
2007-01-15 20:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to speak the english
2007-01-15 17:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋