hellllllo....im 14....at school, im ttoo shy when i talk to girls....when ever i talk to a girl i feel like shes judging me on EVERYTHING, so everything i do i feel like i have to do it my best and screw up everything and after that im way too shy to even confront them...i watch movies on how guys r so smooth with girls and they always have the girl smiling and laughing......how can i be like that??? this is also hurting my social life becuase i dont go to parties or to the moives or anywhere i know girls will be becuase i know i'll get shy if i talk to any......all my friends have girlfriends and this and that but i dont....so can u plz give me advice that willl help me come over my problem!! thx
2007-01-15 16:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by lilyoungsta20111 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, i can help you alot here kid.
Been there. Hey i was the ultimate geek probably worse than you.
First he need the attitude:
1) talking to a girl does not mean asking her for a date, let alone marry her. Talk to her like you'd talk to a guy except more polite
2) Don't worry what people think too much. Some people will dislike you but in the end, if you treat people nicely, you'll have gr8 friends too.
3) Don't worry about parties, The truth is, (I'm 40), they are HIGHLY overated. Often people act stupid, pretend to care about each other, get sick, etc. Instead find a sport that suits you, say one that is not a jock sport, since I assume you are not a jock. Have fun playing it.
4) If you are a nice guy, there will be girls who like you and some of them nice ones. The problem is you probably wont notice but dont be in a rush. The secret to dating is sometimes, to "not look".
5) Don't worry about your friends. At your age, half of them lie about girls anyway but you'll find nice girls at your time. Relax.
6) When the time is right, it will come naturally. Just remove the stress.
2007-01-15 17:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The absolute in icebreakers is to break wind real loud in front of people, quote "se la vie" , then laugh , after that people will see you in a new light!
2007-01-16 01:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by greythound crazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your game face on and talk to her like this how you doingwhen a guy make first move girls love it
2007-01-16 01:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by babygizzleandillusion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋