My wife has a nerve cluster in one of her breast. She won't let me touch it since it causes her pain when I touch it and now she won't let me touch either one. The doctor says it doesn't need be removed since it won't cause any complication in the long run. Having this problem, I'm forced to go without the boobs. I've asked the wife to get this fixed but she doesn't want surgery either. I hate to have anyone get surgery but I like boobs more than anything in life. Has anyone gotten around this issues? It doesn't have to be boob. Maybe someone has similar issue with different circumstances. If so, how are you handling it?
2007-01-15 16:43:42 · 7 answers · asked by srk2040 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Just be glad she doesn't have something more serious, and learn to appreciate her.
Surgery is her choice and her's alone. And she'll probably end up getting it rather than putting up with the pain, but she's probably scared right now, and you should be there for her and not just concerned about boob action.
2007-01-15 16:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a book that might help you, called "Getting to Yes." It's about how to negotiate. It will help you decide what you want to ask for, and how important that is to you. I think that, in the short run, you need to show your wife that she is more important to you than her breasts are, and that you will stand by her in sickness and in health. In the long run, you have to decide if you really want to take a stand on this, if you are willing to get divorced if she won't have the operation. The book will help you decide what you need to do.
2007-01-15 17:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. Your wife might be scared of what surgery might be like or if it could leave scarring or something like that. It probably bothers her too that you can't touch her anymore. Pray that she will heal.
2007-01-15 17:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should respect her and go on with out boobs, cant u sacrifice for you wife, time can come when u can be in any problem then your wife will be only one supporting u
2007-01-15 17:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of your wife and not of yourself!! If she is in pain then you need to sacrifice a little. At least she hasn't cut you off all together.
2007-01-15 16:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by justcurious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My partner snores. I enjoy my sleep, but I also love him, and I can't imagine getting a part of his throat cut out (with unpredictable results) so I deal with the snoring.
God bless
2007-01-15 16:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go without the one boob. its her choice mate
2007-01-15 18:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by feeras1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋