Too many gay and bi men are married and fooling around. So how do mature single bi men who have only recently acknowledged their gay side, have little experience with gays, and no connections meet legitimate dates? Can they do this without having to practically announce their new-found sexual interest? Can they end up actually loving a man if they are more straight than gay? How do they deal with old friends and family who think this is some craziness or sin? How do they deal with the over-heated gay or bi guys who want to START with sex before they even know (if they care) their partner's first and last name? Gay's sure are a funny bunch and hard to figure out. Are they really "gay" (that is "happy")?
2007-01-15 16:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by agreeableone 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've tried the ads on the Internet and find that, yes, there is lots of casual sex available, especially from married men who are unable to host and scared to death that their wife will learn about her husband's sexuality. I find the guys in both catagories are only good for very ocassional sex.
2007-01-17 17:26:10 · update #1
Craigslist.
2007-01-15 16:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Peaceful Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there.. i am in essentially the same spot as you. just recently realized i am bi and anxious to get with a guy, but want love, or at least a really good friendship, before getting sexual.
i've recognized my bisexuality for only 5 weeks, but i have had more strangers ask me for sex in those 5 weeks then the previous 33 years of my live combined!
sign up for bisexual.com and other bi websites and post detailed adds in your profile..... make it clear that you are not looking for casual sex..
you can also scan the ads to see if there are others in your area looking for the same thing.
2007-01-15 16:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like hanging out in pubs is a good start.
if you are goodlooking , you'll attract attention.
remember pubs are close by and in reading what you say,
you would be most happy searching for companionship nearby.
the internet dating is a joke.
there are a lot of gamers and losers that go there.
home is where the heart is.
2007-01-15 18:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classified Ads & the wonderful InterNet. I'm a fan of anonymous!
2007-01-22 12:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by PervyRetard 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no difference yet there's a double prevalent. if I see a guy relationship a bisexual woman, i think of not something of it. yet while that's a bisexual guy and a woman.... i in my opinion don't be responsive to. that's wierd
2016-10-20 06:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a message on a public toilet wall
2007-01-20 19:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are religious, you could find a a gay-bi church or temple.
2007-01-23 02:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋