should I tell my mom that I lost my virginity and may be pregnant? she would be so mad I am only 16 I'll be 17 next month but I am afraid of what she might say
2007-01-15 16:23:42 · 27 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No, you shouldn't, you must tell your mother!
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2007-01-15 16:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take the pregnancy test first. If you are pregnant you will definitely need to tell your mother. You will have some decisions to make and they will be easier with your mother's help. She will be mad and that's perfectly normal. What mother would say she is happy that her 16 year old is pregnant? However, after she sorts through he anger she will be able to help you.
If you're not pregnant you should still talk to your mother about it. If you were really ready for sex, you would have made sure you used protection so you couldn't get pregnant or contract a sexually transmitted disease. If I was your mom I would want to know you were sexually active. I'd want you to realize that while getting pregnant may seem like your biggest concern, you need to use protection so you don't contract AIDS and die. Maybe hearing her concern will help you think twice about not using protection. Good luck!
2007-01-16 03:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get a pregnancy test if not pregnant then nothing to say. If you are pregnant may as well tell her as your changin body will give it away. ? is the father involved? Both of you should tell each others parents together. If you are not pregnant obtain some form of contraceptive to use from now on.
2007-01-16 09:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she will be mad. But you should tell her. It will bring you closer together. But she has no right to either make you, or to stop you from getting an abortion. So don't be bullied either. perhaps you should sit down with mom and your school nurse or counselor and tell her. The best idea is to get a home pregnancy test first. Tell her if you are, and if your not then get some birth control.
2007-01-16 00:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Heather m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see if you ARE pregnant. Take a test. If you are pregnant, you have to tell her so that she can support you in decisions you need to make. Not being a virgin anymore will be the least of your problems, in that case.
It would be a good thing, though to tell her that you are sexually active so that you can get on birth control and get regular gynecological visits.
2007-01-16 00:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a mother, I think that you should talk to her, it will be hard for her to hear, but tell her. You may want to think about what kind of relationship that you want to have with your mother. My daughter and I have a great relationship and she says that she tells me EVERYTHING, and I believe her. But by her telling me everything when her friends or her need someone to talk to, well I am here. If that is the relationship that you want with her, then tell her that, it will help her when she finds out that you are no longer a virgin.
2007-01-16 00:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her. I recently thought I was pregnant (im 17) and have a pretty good relationship with my mom but always thought I couldn't tell her something like that because of her morals. But I told her, and she was absolutly amazing about it. She talked to me about it, and what I would do, and it helped me SO much. Of course she wasn't happy. lol. But she took it better than I ever imagined. And Im so happy I told her.
2007-01-16 06:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jen J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get a home pregnancy test first. You don't have to share that you lost your virginity but if you turn out to be pregger you'll need your mom to help you whatever path you choose. She'll probably get mad but you can't change the way it is. In order to be treated like an adult you have to act like one. So talk to her liker an adult.
2007-01-16 00:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find out first if you are pregnant. Then if is yes you tell her. If is negative is up to you if you want to tell her you lost your virginity. Thou I think that should stay with you as a secret if you are not pregnant.
2007-01-16 00:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by dbo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mom. Hopefully, you have a good enough relationship that she would be supportive, even if she is a little upset (and it may talk a few days for her to get over it). Our parents should be some of our best friends and they have likely been through much of what we go through. Good luck.
2007-01-16 16:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a pregnancy test. If it comes up neg and you still dont get your period take another. If it comes up positive then tell your mom asap. If it comes up neg then tell your mom you are interested in birth control. If she has a problem with you being on birth control just mention that its less money then having a baby.
2007-01-18 03:48:04 · answer #11 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋