I was at my boyfriends house lastn ight and sense the mid-west has had an ice storm his aunt's house had lost electricty and they were all staying the night with him as well. So... his large family decided they were going to watch pornography together, i was quite embaressed so i said i would watch his younger cousin "Little Jimmy" so we played monopoly while My boyfriend (Andrew) and the rest of them all watch the movies. So as the night grew late and we were laying down for bed my boyfriend and i crawl under the blankets and little Jimmy says he wants to sleep with us. No big deal right? well two seconds after that Andrew whispers into my ear "When little Jimmy goes to bed, lets watch one of those movies our selves" i was sooo excited ( we've never been sexual this is mentioned in another one of my questions) So we try everything to get little jimmy to sleep, to no prevail, so we think we have tricked him into going into the living room while we watch the porno and he comes in...
2007-01-15 15:21:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
so... we're watching this movie, about to start making out when the door swings open, and oap! THEIRS LITTLE JIMMY! (He was trying to watch the movie all night while his parents were, but i stopped him) so Andrew is fed up and doesnt care any more, and just lets him watch it with us. Im turned off and feel discusting and like im a pervert sense im 18, Andrew's 17 and Little Jimmy is 10. Isnt this grounds for like being a pedophile or somthing!!!
2007-01-15 15:23:38 · update #1
Sick Mothers is all I can say...RUNAWAY VERY FAST!!!!!!
2007-01-15 15:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship now! Your situation is very bad. Not just for the pornography but by the irresponsible manner of the whole family. They are addicted to sex and show NO RESPECT to your feelings on the matter. They (your bf included) are showing you that they don't care about you. Don't be fooled by their words they are selfish and controlling. You will end up getting trapped if you don't take a stand right away. I Say this from experience. Sex and exploring sex can be wonderful and exciting. What you are stepping into is a dangerous perversion.
2007-01-15 15:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by bummer101467 <2HeartKnight> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say ... YES!!!...there is something wrong with that picture. For one why would a family watch a porno together? That to me is sick in it's self. I could see a group of guys watching it or a group of girls or even a group of guys and girls together and of course a couple watching it but a family...that's just not right, then alone letting a little one watch it too. I wouldn't call yourself a pedophile though, unless you were fantasizing about the little kid.
2007-01-15 15:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was a kid I spent the night at a friends house (downstairs neighbor) and the older kids were watching porn with the parents (on a projector to tell you how long ago that was) and the younger kids (me included) had to stay in the bedroom. I thought it was odd cause nothing like that would have ever happened at my house.
Anyway - a few years later - the two oldest boys have both done stints in prison - I am pretty sure one was in for rape.
Go figure.
2007-01-15 15:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by John P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah there is something seriously wrong with that family. Letting little jimmy watch porn is going to corrupt his relationship with women possibly the rest of his life. He will see woman as sex objects and cheat on all his girlfriends. Oh and believe me...I would bet my 1,000 dollars against your 1 dollar that your boyfriend probably has the same respect for women as say ron jeremy
2007-01-15 15:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad enough that the whole family watches porno together, but a 10 year old boy??!! That is just wickedly WRONG!!!! This is like something you'd see on a Jerry Springer show! You should think of ditching this guy and his weird family.
2007-01-15 15:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tonto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 05:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you could be considered a pedophile, little jimmy's parents might catch some flak for not preventing him from watching it, but there is another catch. Minors watching porn is illegal, and that includes your boy friend, so if anything, that is what's going to get you in trouble.
2007-01-15 15:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by nasonguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really. he was not molesting the boy. it really is no big deal in that case. Andrew did not intentionally decide to let Jimmy watch the porn. Besides Andrew is under-age himself at 17.
The WHOLE family? WOW!!!
2007-01-15 15:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are really sick and what they did can be considered child endangerment.
Best advice - Dump this guy as quick as you can!!!
You do not want to date someone from a family like that!!!
Apples don't fall far from the tree you know.
If you ever got married later, his family would be a major problem. If he had any respect for you - he would not put you in that situation.
2007-01-15 17:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by inzaratha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Jerry Springer show. And you BOTH are wrong for letting a 10yo watch porno.
2007-01-15 15:26:57 · answer #11 · answered by Jack P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋