What ta do if called blackie? what to do if your freind laugh at you when your called blackie?

Question

Every day in school iam called blackie and i tried to ignore it but it really hurts when people do it and sometimes i get really upset but i dont know what to say what should i do or say and dont say ignore it beacuse the doesnt work and when people call me blackie i my friends think it is the funnies thing and sometimes they join in shuld i no be ther friends anymore or tell them how i feel?

Answer 1

I'd drop them as "friends", they're not worth your time if they only stick around to call you childish names. Same goes for the rest of the people in the class, I suppose.

I don't know, I'd honestly just ignore it, and they'll stop eventually. They do it to get a rise out of you, and it might be hard to put aside your emotions and just ignore them, but if you do, they'll stop.

Answer 2

They may call you blackie but, in reality, they're colour blind. And though you may look different to them - this is what they love about you.

So embrace the fact that you have friends (many people don't!). There's no point in attacking them for what might seem inconsiderate words (which they are) - but to explain to them that it upsets you sometimes - may make them realise this.

The real friends will change their ways. But don't walk away from those who continue to call you blackie as this would just create enemies of them. It is far better to keep your 'fake' friends as close to you as your real ones.

Because one day - even these 'fake' friends - could well become your closest true ones! And there's nothing as sweet as seeing this happen (it's happened to me many times)

Either way - I'm sure you're beautiful - both inside and out - I can tell this by the warmth of your writing.

Answer 3

in simple terms a white Wookie calling a brown Wookie is racist. human beings can call each guy or woman a Wookie with out problem of retribution. for particular if a Wookie is indignant by using applying being in comparison to somebody think of ofyou've have been given an completely diverse inter-species kind of conflict. this could convey appropriate to the forced attendance of a chain of social information training and in all risk a civil effectual of now no longer lots much less then twenty bananas and a coconut.

Answer 4

This is completely unacceptable behaviour and you MUST tell both your parents and the Head of your school. However, I can imagine how difficult this must be for you and how much it must be hurting you.
Although I am white, my best friend is black. She was the only black pupil in the whole of her school. She got called names too by ignorant people who didn't know any better. It really hurt her, but she has gone on to achieve incredible things, and is now right at the very top of her profession.
I, too, was bullied in school, and even now at the age of 50 it still hurts me to remember. So do what I should have done: TELL THE TEACHERS what is happening. Keep your head held high. Tell your friends how hurtful you find the name calling. Tell them on a on-to-one basis. Tell them it's really racist and very uncool.
I'll be thinking of you. Let me know how you get on.
Be proud of yourself and your heritage!

Answer 5

first of all u shoud report the people calling calling u 'blackie' to the head of the school, u are been verbally assaulted and that is a crime! in which u can even take a case to the police. and as for your friend, u need to drop them fast like hot coal. it could be the hardest thing but trust me that is not a friend.

Being racially abused is a big deal, dont feel you have to sit there and take it!!!u need to fight back, not physically but through the system. Fight for the 100 of years of opression and slavery!!!! please dont take it...enuf is enuf!!!

Answer 6

Black is beautiful! The black er the berry the sweeter the juice. phrases Im sure you have heard before, but perhaps they will not have meaning for you until you get a little older. For now, try not to let the kids spoil your self esteem.

You need some education on how trully blessed you are to be black. White folk would have you feel otherwise. Hopefully you have not been miseducated to the point of no return.

Answer 7

speak to these people personally and let them know that what they are Say in not funny to you, let them know that you are a strong and confident person but, that they crossed a line that what they said was unacceptable. If the behavior continues then let you school officials know, and not a teacher, but some one like the principal. don't over react just express your self in a reasonable manor.

Answer 8

i used to have 'friends' like that .get rid of them,loving you being humiliated and then acting like nothings happened,while your still burning up inside,with anger and hurt,they'll just hold you back,make new friends,better to have 1 genuine friend than a pack of wolves in sheeps clothing.you will unfortunately encounter people such as these throughout your adult life.i know its of no consolation but by laughing at your discomfort they are sucking up to the cowards that actually begin the namecalling, their subconciously saying 'we agree with you,your great,please accept me as one of you,please dont pick on me,' yet when these people eventually grow up they'l comment on how lucky you are to have colour all year round,while they are roasting themselves all summer long trying to get a tan. and hon,listen,in a couple of years from now,a small percentage of these girls will be going around with little black babies of their own,.i know its not much help,but keep these thoughts inside of you,because this taunting wont last forever,and its only because of their own insecurities that they pick on others so they can feel better about themselves. please try not to let these shallow-minded,ignorant,sad little people take up too much of your precious thinking time and use up your emotions,theres much more out there more important than these sad twattys to think about.,if theres a particular teacher or adult you connect with try unloading some of your pent up frustation with them,or show them these e-mails,if you dont think youll be able to express yourself,it'l help for them to understand how deep its affecting you. stay strong and always remember that what comes around, goes around. strange but true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!xxxxxxxxxx

Answer 9

they are not ur friends if they treat u like that that is bullshit never let any one treat u like that It is MLK day just think of the great man and do what he might have done in the same situation

Answer 10

call the juice man i can make the people who hurt u sleep with the fishes