I am 17 years old and i am so devestated me and my boyfriend been together for 1year and some months!! Lately I fould out that he was cheating on me and our relationship was not going right so i meet this guy...Here;s the problem! I had unprotected sex with this guy on January 12 I got off my period on January 6!! He told me while having sex that he already had ejaculate! I ask him when and where he said he had ejaculate when his penis keep going in and out of my vagina! If thats the case that means sperm had to come in me because his penis was going in and out! Plus after when we was having sex I felt some stuff coming out of me and I dont know if it was from me or him! He swore to me that he did not ejaculate in me but i know that guys do lie! I have a irregular period I usually come on every other 3 months but lately I been coming on every month!! I went on a Fertilty Map website and it stated that I was due to ovulate between the 14-16 of January I had sex with him on the 12th!
2007-01-15 15:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Player 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It sounds like he did ejaculate inside you. You need to find a way to get a home pregnancy test and take it. Sperm can live in the female body for up to 72 hours and you could very well be pregnant. The key now is don't panic, find out for sure and go from there. If it is negative, and you don't get your period in the next few weeks, test again to be sure. From now on use protection.
2007-01-15 15:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by busemomme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is why you always use condoms. That aside, dont get too upset yet. It takes so many things to fall in to place for you to get pregnant. If you ovulation was due on the 14-16 and you had sex on the 12 then that would be a bit early for the egg to be in the right place and the right condition to be fertilized, not saying it can not happen but the odds are so great for it to happen its not likely. On that note since you have irregular periods you can not use a ovulation calender effectively since you can not map out the true schedule of your monthly cyles or your lunar cycle. If he ejaculated in you once, the chances are low that you would get pregnant that one time, BUT it can happen. Mostly calm yourself and, since you know the day he ejaculated in you take a test in Feb the week after the 12th if you dont get a period. Just keep an eye on your body but dont mentally push symptoms on your self cause your worried. Then call planned parenthood for some Birth control or free condoms they will give you lots of them... and if you dont want to be pregnant dont listen to your boyfriends whinning about, how they hate condoms. Its safer, and so much better that being pregnant or sick with STDS.
2007-01-15 15:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by I luv Pets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very likely you could be pregnant. The only 100% effective birth control is abstinence (NO SEX!)... You should see a doctor if you are sexually active or suspect pregnancy & talk tou your parents! If you must continue having sex, use protection...There are STD's with NO symptoms, that over long periods of time, not knowing you are infected, can cause infertility or DEATH!You may not want children now but someday you will! I DO NOT want to scare you, but if you are going to partake in that activity you should educate yourself on the risks & consiquences involved!
As for your boyfriend, if he was cheating he is not a good guy! As for the new guy he doesn't sound much better. I would cut your losses, and leave them out of your life...You are much better without them. Someone worth being with is one that will respect you enough to wait for sex!
2007-01-15 15:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Boppysgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to take a pregnancy test! If it has been less than 72 hours you can go to a planned parenthood clinic and get the Plan B pill which can make it difficult for implantation to occur. Regardless, you need to take a pregnancy test at the beginning of February, if it comes back negative and you don't get your period in another week or two take another test. If that comes back negative or positive go to the doctor! Time to tell the folks too....
2007-01-21 02:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all boys don't need to ejaculate to get you pregnant. They have semen that escapes in small ammounts from there urethra to lubricate the vagina. That precum can be enough to impregnate. I would get a pregnancy test. Why are you having unproteceted sex? Don't you know the risks other than pregnancy. Please go to planned parenthood or some other clinic and get yourself protected. Good Luck
2007-01-20 21:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by bdebmore 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether he did or not, you had unprotected sex. The first secretions at the beginning of intercourse are the most potent. Even just " rubbing around" can be enough to start a baby!
IF YOU DON'T WANT TO GET PREGNANT:
#1. DON'T HAVE SEX!
#2. ABSTINENCE
#3. CELEBACY
IN OTHER WORDS WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE READY!
2007-01-23 06:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Gramms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with him on the 12th then you could of gotten pregnant. Sperm stays in your system like 72 hours.
Get a pregnancy test toward the middle of Feb.
Take care and try getting on BC if you are not so you wont have this problem anymore, they work great!!!
2007-01-15 15:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by princesandy2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its possible that u can become pregnant. Sperm can live inside u for up to 3 to 4 days. O Ohhh.. ..
2007-01-15 15:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he came in your vigina while he was screwing you and his sperm went in to your vigina you better make sure that it didnt take once the penis is inserted into your vigina and when your partner comes the spern is injected you are kind a young to be pregnant and that could mess up your future young ladie good luck
2007-01-22 09:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are pragnant there is a simple and painless solution. Give the kid up for adoption, that way the kid lives a nice a life and so do u.
2007-01-19 17:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by .......... 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋