my boyfriend has been with many grls and i have only ever been with one guy. So hes more experienced then i am. And we have been going out for a year and we talk about sex all the time. I am a little nervous because im not as experienced as he is. What should I do?
2007-01-15 14:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lol alright, god does not look down on people who have sex before marriage, sorry don't believe that BS. Anyways, I was nervous too, but if your bf loves you then he wont care. Talk to him, when youre doing stuff, tell him before hand to tell you what he likes, or what feels good. Even if you were expericenced everyone is different. Guys like different things, ask your mad what he likes. And use a condom, if not insist you both get tested, Planned parenthood is the best place, they're discreet and inexpensive. Hope that helps ^_^
2007-01-15 14:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you're married.
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. He had sex with his long-term girlfriend before me. So he's more experienced than me, obviously. Yes, we talk about sex all the time. But I truly want to wait and he respects that. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-15 14:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say read some books. But then folks try to "do it by the book" and that never works out. Just follow his lead and do what comes naturally. Maybe talk about your fears to your bf. If he is sensitive he will understand an be gentle and encourage you. If he isn't, dump him.
2007-01-15 14:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kind of relationship .. i am not sure of how long it can last because it seemed to be based on lust. arent there any other important things to accomplish in this relationship other than sex?
2007-01-15 14:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anna D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋