my friend whos a guy started grabbing my crotc last night but i have had some gay fantasies and i was wondering if i should take him up on gesture. He fully knew what he was doing cause he was looking at me. what would u do?
2007-01-15 14:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by William V 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Beat the crap out of him!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 14:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
Personally, i would take your friend up on the gesture. You said you have had "gay Fantasies" so you must be curious at least. Be sure that your friendship will not suffer if the experimentation goes sour.
2007-01-15 14:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by dragonskis 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think a lot harder on how you feel and what your sexual orientation is and who you're attracted to.
If you've thought you were straight and all of the sudden are having gay fantasties after a little crotch grab, I wouldn't just jump into sex to try it out. Give it thought, and then, if you understand your desires and want to, you can.
Don't rush anything, that's my advice.
2007-01-15 14:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you want to take him up on it. If you were repulsed by the idea, you wouldn't question what you should do. Are you attracted to him? If so, what are you waiting for? He may be picking up on something you haven't realized about yourself.
2007-01-15 14:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbeh C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit inappropriate, but obviously you know your friend better than we do. are you sure he was making a pass at you? perhaps if you are curious, you could ask in a playful way what his intentions are. if you are truly attracted to him -- and he was flirting -- it could be the start of something beautiful!
2007-01-15 14:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by nystrele 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tease him back, if he starts to freak turn it into a joke, and say "Hey man you started it!" but laugh about it you will both get over it, if he takes you up on it, well then take it from there.
2007-01-15 16:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Yosuke A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal gay guys don't go around grabbing the crotches of friends. I find your question insulting and suspect.
2007-01-15 14:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I would grab his crotch the next time you see him. See what happens, there could be fireworks.
2007-01-15 14:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by mathib12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound interested. I would give it a try. He's your friend and would not do anything to urt you or your friendship.
2007-01-15 14:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have an opportunity to learn something about yourself. Why would you pass it up?
2007-01-15 14:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you be the judge of that after all it is you body and you fantacy, if you have been wondering about it then why wonder find out for your self. me i would tell him to keep his hands to himself.
2007-01-15 14:35:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋