EMERGANCY! Pregnant? Only 15! He's only 16!?

Question

Ok I am 15 and i have always had irregular periods. I have the following symptoms of being pregnant...

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Frequant Urination
Tiredness
Sore Breasts
Bloating on some days

Please someone tell me what is the chances i am pregnant? Help me please! I am only 15 and he is only 16! We need you! Thank you sooo much!

everytime we have had sex we have used protection!

Answer 1

What the heck... you should be using protection!!! Besides getting pregnant, there's a high chance of getting infectious diseases that could cut short your lifespan. Imagine dying at 16 years old. You ought to get a pregnancy test right away. And if you're not pregnant, go see a doctor to see what else the symptoms could be about.

And also, you will need to consider what you should do, if you're positive for pregnancy: do you abort the baby? Do you choose to keep the baby? Or do you give it away to someone else? None of these choices are going to be easy and you may not like the idea of abortion , the process of taking away another human life, without giving it the chance to make a choice.

And if you want to bring the baby up, you will have to face your and his parents, and it won't be easy to earn money and go to school at the same time, all the while taking care of a baby.

And the idea of giving a baby away might seem a somewhat awful choice, too.

But, one last piece of advice: do not let anyone force or persuade you into making a choice. Take your time to think things over and decide on what you think is best. If you let others persuade you, you might end up making a decision you could regret for life. Believe in yourself but most of all, make sure your decisions are sound.

Answer 2

Ok first off, take a Home pregnancy test. You can get them anywhere, and they are usually accurate. It shouldn't cost more than $20.


Your chances? Well honestly, its 50/50. Especially with the irregular periods. When was your last period? If you had sex around 2 wks after your period, the chances of pregnancy are higher.

If you're pregnant, then you need to think about a few things, obviously. If you're not, then either stop having sex *or* use protection the next time around. (Unless you used protection, and it failed you. That's a different story.)

Answer 3

Well everyone responds to pregnancy differently, I went a whole pregnancy without getting sick at all. But that is a lot of symptoms, so chances are you're pregnant, it's a lot easier than you think it is. There are women who have had their tubes tied and STILL gotten pregnant, so even if you have birth control AND used a condom you can still get pregnant, go to Wal-Mart or Walgreens or even a gas station and buy a pregnancy test, buy the kind that has 2 in it so you can test twice to be sure. If you are I'm sure you have a lot of people around you that are supportive, I got pregnant when I was 16 and I was so stressed out from my mom that I lost it, so you need to make sure that you're in a good environment and take care of yourself good, go buy prenatal vitamins, eat healthy, obviously no drinking or smoking. But if you aren't pregnant, you learned from this scare, to be more careful next time. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Take a pregnancy test. Go to planned parenthood. Symptoms alone could mean pregnancy, or that your period is coming, or that you have a nasty bug. Get a test done. Any time you have sex protected or not you run the chance of getting pregnant or an STD. And use protection from now on. Good luck

Answer 5

Anytime you have sex, even if it is protected, you are taking a gamble. Go get a pregnancy test and take it first thing in the morning. Pregnancy hormones are highest then. The symptoms you've described are also common of PMS and being overwhelmed with stress and anxiety. But, my question to you is---why are you having sex if you aren't ready for the consequences or using protection?

Answer 6

I had all those symptoms when pregnant. So did my sister and my mom. Get a home pregnancy test. Take it. If it's positive,
your life is going to change very rapidly.
You and your boyfriend need to sit down with your parents and his parents. Tell both sets of parents that you are sexually active
(and pregnant (if you are) . They'll probably be mad, at first.
But, they'll respect you for being brave enough to tell them the truth.
The parents can help and guide both you and your boyfriend through this difficult time.

Answer 7

So, you were mature enough to have sex but not mature enough to have a baby? LOL, didn't they teach you in sex ed that sex makes babies, or did you think that was some moral propaganda to prevent you from receiving pleasure? As scared as you might be for yourself, please keep in mind that if there is a baby inside you, it deserves to be born and raised by good parents, so go the adoption route. If you are not pregnant, stop having sex at 15 or at least get a reliable birth control to prevent these freak outs.

Answer 8

yeahh you could be pregnant. go to the store and buy an at home test or go to planned parenthood. if you are pregnant you have three choices. abortion. adoption or keeping the baby. there is nothing wrong with keeping your baby. alot of things will change and you'll have alot to go through but if you're willing to try thats alot. im 16 and due next month. i got pregnant while i was 15 and im doing good. i dont rely on welfare and im doing good in school. let me know how things go and if u need any more help!
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Answer 9

Oh my God...
Go get a test and see for yourself, the chance is really high that you're pregnant though.
See planned parenthood, and, before that, you have to talk to your parents. They've gotta know. Don't stress so much, or your period will be even more messed up.

Answer 10

you know the chance and you know you need to take a test. My advice to you is calm down. now that you have calmed down does he know that you could be pregnant. if not tell him. after taking the test if it is negative get on birth control or stop having sex. If it is postive go and sit you mom and/or dad down and tell them you a pregnant. (they love and and will get over the shock. to them your still a there baby girl. try to understand they have away wanted what is best for you). now that your parents know you, your parents and your boyfriend need to decide to either raise the baby your selves or give the baby up for adoption. don't decide anything until you talk to your parents. GOOD LUCK!