Ok, i have this friend and hes nice...he has no friends pretty much but me and another girl..
He asked if he could call once and i said yes...
ow he calls at least 4 times a day..
My dads getting angry and my boyfriend is getting suspicious.
I want this kid to stay my friend, but i just want him to stop calling me all the time.
i want to tell him but i ddon't want him to feel i don't want to be his friend anymore.
What should i say to put it nicely?
2007-01-15 13:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him the truth. He will be alright with it.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 13:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't please everybody. What are your priorities??
Father first, boyfriend, then nice friend.
You have to talk to this person and lay down the law.
If you do not give people boundaries they will walk all over you.
You said he could call..... now tell him how often.
You should not fear you hurting his feelings, because he has now caused a disruption in your life and is becoming bothersome. Talk to him now and if he doesn't listen, cut the strings, as he will be disrespecting you and your families privacy....
2007-01-15 13:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by being honest with him. Tell that your father is upset that he keeps calling, and ask that he limit his attempts in order to avoid getting in trouble with dad. Explain what you just explained here, and I think you'll be okay.
2007-01-15 13:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is blame your dad. Tell him that your dad is getting angry at all the phone calls.
2007-01-15 13:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not techincally phoen harassment utnil you tell him the words " Do Not Call me anymore" and you have to have proof that you told him that ( like a witness or a recording). so i'd say inculde that in what you tell him.
2007-01-15 13:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your parents are getting mad at him for calling so often.then ask him politely to not call you everyday.Try to not be rude.I called my friend twice one day, and his dad yelled at me.I havent called scense.Just dont be rude!
2007-01-15 13:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by ░▒▓Mollyஐ▓▒░ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.
2007-01-15 13:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur grounded form the phone
2007-01-15 13:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋