Why dont teenagers here batter the adults who witheld information?

Question

Why dont teenagers here batter the adults who witheld information?

If you dont tell somone there maybe dangerous animals say jellyfish in an area of sea they are likly to swim you are trying to get them hurt or killed.


If you dont tell people not to mix bleach with other chemcials you are trying to poision gas them.

If you dont teach people how to drive properly and pass them you are trying to get them killed or somone else.


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Therefore if somone older witheld sex ed info like the kind asked here such as can you get pregnant standing, on you period, from getting fingered, if the guy pulls out.


There can be no logical reason other then it was a deliberate attempt to get you or gf pregnant to **** their life up, they are and enemy and out to hurt you therefore a legit target for revenge and to teach never to withold info again.


If this happened on a regualr basis the old folk would learn not to do this and teach properly.



So why is that not done ?

To force change so everyone is educated properly and so they dont have to ask freinds here or end up needing abortions as not drummed into thinking anything go wrong get morning after pills... and all the ways you can get pregnant other then what they teach in school.?


Given how much hurt will occur and how fucked up lives will be for teenagers... is not serious hurt justified in revenge?

And these adults know... they are old enough to know and its their job to find out, their responsibility to find out and teach.

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Explanation...


if teachers do not explicitly say

you can get pregnant on you period they are deliberately trying to trick girls into believing they are safe on period to get them pregnant.


Likewise if not specifically told then can get pregnant if the guy pulls out due to pre cume... what other reason other then to get the kid knocked up?


Likewise how anything oil based can melt holds through condom rubber... Not discussing things like foreplay with food ie icecream and cohocate or using vasaline as a lubricant.


Again what other reason then to get kids pregnant.


Likewise not pointing out explicitly that sperm stays alive outside the body as long as wet therefore can enter from outside or on fingers.



Millions get pregnant these ways FOR THE SOLE REASON THE ADULTS RESPONSIBLE DELIBERATELY WITHELD THE INFORMATION.

Hence them comming here as clearly do not know.

Hence me and others having to comfort very distressed, hurt girls who are now pregnant or in danger (if we can send them to get morning after pills in time).

Or seeing all those with fucked up lives.


Had enough of seeing hurt kids as people witheld info...

Holding back info that can prevent somone being hurt is the same as hurting them yourself

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If teenagers dont listen to adults and kids do... why wait till they are teenagers. Likewise you can hand over the info or pay an older teenager to do it for you.

Easy enough probelm to solve.


Or do a test.. 100 percent or grounded untill you pass.

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Im saying current education is like driving lessons that leave out things like slwoing down in fog and on wet surfaces, wearing seatbelts, road signs etc.


Ie would you let your kid drive if all it know was a one hour lesson in how to make it go faster, slower and work the breaks?

No?

then why do so with sex ed?

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Daryus... erm ever hesrd of hormones...


Better still rent out an old movie called 'The Blue Lagoon'

Kinda says it all... Kids will grow up and work out how to have sex due to hormones... ie driven to it. Can't stop it.

Sex ed shows them how it all works and how to do it without getting pregnant.

Poster above him.


How are teenagers supposed to research when they dont know what to look for? and when one mistake wrecks lives whilst adults know it all.

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Katerina and evil bunny.

If its hard to teach teenagers as embarrased and not wanting to learn...


the answer is simple... teach it all a lot earlier pre teenager when no hormones or feelings and the kids take it all in like you are saying this is how a car works...


Seen that before many middle class parents having taught 5,6,7 year olds all this (also helps with early periods so a girl wont flip like in the opening scene in carrie ir if say walked in on parents wont be horrified thinking dad was trying to kill or hurt mummy... but their parents were making out and take the micky the next morning (being happy that it meant mum and dad love each other like kissing making them more secure)

Answer 1

Take it up with George W. and our conservative government! They are the ones who are forcing schools to teach abstinence only in the classrooms instead of teaching people how to protect themselves!!!! The result is that more and more teens are getting pregnant!
When we teach abstinence only and not safe sex methods, we do not keep kids from having sex! If anything, it just prompts kids to seek out their own sex information, and they get misinformation, like you can't get pregnant from pulling out or precum, or even stupider things like you can't get pregnant if you jump up and down after sex.
Without adults to give them the truth and whole truth, kids don't have the tools to make informed decisions.

If you really care, get on your school district's school or sex ed committee and make sure that the curriculum is not abstinence only!!!

Answer 2

How do you know it was deliberately withheld? Just because someone is an adult; parent, teacher, etc. doesn't mean they know everything. However, battering someone, for ANY reason, is illegal and can get you a hefty jail sentence. Besides the illegality of it, using violence has never accomplished anything except to incite more violence. Instead of blaming others, do research on stuff before you jump into it and find out what can happen. One of the biggest problems today is people blaming others rather than taking responsibility for their actions. If teenagers would use the research tools available, on the web, at the library, etc. to educate themselves about both the positives and the negatives to having sex, in any position, at any time of the month, or in any manner (especially unprotected) there would be a lot fewer unwanted pregnancies.

Answer 3

oh my dear god...u wana tell me how many teens wana sit there and actually pay attention in class? let alone a sex education one! i got a grand total of 2 questions right on a sex ed test once, and was bullied about it for months! its not for lack of parents and teachers trying to teach their kids, its the teens feeling uncomfortable talking to an adult they kno about it. the birds n the bees convo that i got came from mum...and OH MY GOD! well...i dnt sleep 4 ages! i just had this minging image of me parents...ew.....anyway. YOU my sad sad sad friend, need to get a life and stop moaning about the teens on here that at least have the guts to ask someone if they're not sure about something. and just because they get pregnant young, does not mean their life is ruined! how can you call yourself human, when u call a creation of life a mistake?! u clearly don't have any children yourself or you'd understand the magic of children, and the awe of child birth. get a life...and keep you're rants off of here!!

Answer 4

Dude!
to start you say you have to comfort those hurt and pregnant.If that's true,I'm sorry you are so bitter.You are acting like a kid yourself and blaming everyone else for what seems not even to be your problem.
If you have your own kids,then only can you raise them how you want to,but you dont get to judge people for their own ways and what they think is best for their children.

I almost fell asleep during your long "question",as i dint see your real question.you are only looking to let out steam.Maybe if you post a short question and state your problem exactly,will people give you serious answers.

Try that,and who knows,people will give you the information you are so craving for.
Good luck with that.
Jolleen.

Answer 5

What a complete c0ck you are!!! Have you ever heard your mum or dad say
"listen to me as I'm only looking out for you"
.....and you ignore it like everyone in history has done.
and then when you get hit by it for real when you're older and more experienced in life, you say
"I wish I'd have listened to ....."
I'm only 28 but I've been hit pretty hard in life and from this I know that you really need to get a grip on yourself as nobody else will for you, does mum still iron your school clothes???
I think your time has come to grow up a bit as you are asking serious questions with little or no understanding.

Answer 6

Some parents are mean. Who says you have to ask them? Believe me when I say that kids don't need to know it all at once, your head might explode. Life will come along in it's own good time.
Your question is a bit long for me to really answer properly. I should be in bed, I suppose.

Answer 7

I agree if parent's taught kids things like this then maybe some people would have sense enough to know how to get pregnant and so on.

Answer 8

Who says sex education is withheld? I know for a fact that it's taught in the schools here as well as by the parents themselves...it is also a fact that kids don't often pay attention to what they are being taught.

Answer 9

Maybe you should try writing an editorial since you are obviously asking a rhetorical question and not a real question that you expect to get an intelligent answer from.

Answer 10

A bunch of people have read through what you've written and said it doesn't make any sense to them. Yet I'm guessing that it's sheer poetry to you. The alarm bells should be ringing my friend. Print out this page and go to your GP and explain your feelings to him.