I am 17 years old and i am so devestated me and my boyfriend been together for 1year and some months!! Lately I fould out that he was cheating on me and our relationship was not going right so i meet this guy...Here;s the problem! I had unprotected sex with this guy on January 12 I got off my period on January 6!! He told me while having sex that he already had ejaculate! I ask him when and where he said he had ejaculate when his penis keep going in and out of my vagina! If thats the case that means sperm had to come in me because his penis was going in and out! Plus after when we was having sex I felt some stuff coming out of me and I dont know if it was from me or him! He swore to me that he did not ejaculate in me but i know that guys do lie! I have a irregular period I usually come on every other 3 months but lately I been coming on every month!! I went on a Fertilty Map website and it stated that I was due to ovulate between the 14-16 of January I had sex with him on the 12th!
2007-01-15 13:12:29 · 20 answers · asked by Player 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
WELL CALM DOWN AND TAKE A PREGANANCY TEST IN ABOUT TWO WEEKS. I DO KNOW THAT SPERM LIVES INSIDE A WOMAN BETWEEN 3-5 DAYS AFTER INTERCORSE....YOU NEED TO PROTECT YOURSELF SWEETIE.
2007-01-23 10:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by *MAD!SON* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew!!! Sweetie, you need to have a pregnancy test done. Then you need to figure out what you want to do. If this boy (I won't call him a man because men are more responsible) was cheating on you, you do not need him. I would advise you to involve your parents ASAP. He can release seminal fluid BEFORE ejaculation and that is one reason why the pullout method of birth control doesn't work. But, before you worry too much, get a test. Find out the results and then worry. As far as an abortion is concerned, I feel it is up to you, but there are couples who would love to adopt a baby. I would not recommend keeping the baby because you are very young and you need to finish school, and get financially stable enough you don't have to have a man support you and you babies. I know this sounds heartless and cruel, but dear one, I have been there, and done that...I got pregnant at 17 using the same "method" and the boy ended up abusive, controlling and would not work. I went back to school, by waiting tables at night, and between going to classes, taking care of the baby and trying to sleep, it was a wreck!!! If it wasn't for my mom, I would never have survived. But I can say, I do not have to depend on anyone to support me.
If you decide to have sex, for Pete's sake, use protection...getting pregnant is the least thing you have to worry about...AIDS, Hepatitis and lord know what else you can get. The best way is no way. But I am the last person to tell you. Good luck sweetie. (of course, the spell check doesn't work)
2007-01-21 19:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by skye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had unprotected sex on january 12th, so its been 11 days since that. The doctor told me nowadays u can take a pregnancy test after eleven days, so, stop worrying and do something about it, you can either take a home test or go to a lab and take a blood test. This is more effective.
2007-01-23 17:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by mia_gdl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until 14 days after you had sex to start taking pregnancy tests. I'd take one a week or so until you get your period or a positive test. There's a chance you could be pregnant, but there's no need to panic. Plus, if your cycle is irregular, you probably weren't ovulating when you thought you were.
2007-01-20 22:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all not all of those " fertility maps" are correct. secondly, you need to quit stressing... that'll make your periods irregular. 3rd, go to a clinic and tell them you need a pregnancy test. if they ask if you've missed a period tell them "yes" otherwise they wont do it. if it comes out positive tell your parents and your ex.Get to a doctor immediately .. trust me it wont be the end of the world, i'm 17 and i have a 4month old son. but remember, you have to chill out. everything happens for a reason, even though sometimes the reason isnt very clear to us.if the test is negitive then get on birth control... p.s. pulling out doesnt work , most guys precumm
2007-01-20 03:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by heidi_rammstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gfriend get a pregnancy test, and stop having sex without condoms if you are going to have sex. If you are going to act as if you are in an adult relationship take some adult actions and use protection. I wish the best
2007-01-21 01:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do at the moment is wait a few more weeks and get a pregnancy test or go to the Dr's
2007-01-15 21:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just wait until about the 20th and then take a test. If the test is negative, then wait 5 or so more days, then take another one. It could be or could not be. Good Luck.
2007-01-15 21:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by RearFace@18mo. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait two weeks and take a pregnancy test. that will be the best time to test. Dont have anymore sex until your ready to tell your parents your having a baby.
2007-01-15 21:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by His submissive wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
17 years old,DO NOT HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX,this could chanage your whole life,maybe AIDS,or other STD,you would be lucky if the only think you got out of it was a pregnancy,NEVER LET A GUY INSIDE YOU UNPROTECTED!,THIS IS TOTAL DISRESPECT FOR YOUR SELF AND YOUR FAMILY.TAKE A TEST (((NOW))) TO KNOW..THEY ARE ACCURATE.HOPE YOUR LIFE WORKS OUT OK.STEVE
2007-01-20 19:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by guitpicker777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋