Okay My girlfriend called me yesterday and wanted to get back together, I didnt really want to but I didnt want to feel like a bad guy so I said yes. Keep in mind, this is a PG relationship, nothing sexual or anything but should I have gotten back together with her? We have only been broken up for 3 weeks.
2007-01-15 13:06:46 · 20 answers · asked by hurleyboy2011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you need to ask your self this. Do you really like this girl? Does she make you happy? Do you enjoy being around her just like your guy friends? If she does I would stay with her and let the relationship do it's thing. If you answer no to most of these questions I would tell her the truth and move on. If you stay with this girl in the end you may end up very upset when that one comes along. wish you luck.
2007-01-15 13:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you if you didn't want to.!!!!!!
Afraid of being the bad guy, I can't believe it.
You must learn that you do not stay in relationships or return to them after a breakup because you are worried about being a bad guy.
This is ludicrous. Now you are going to have to do this all over again and won't that be fun!!!!
You should never be in a one sided relationship for convenience.,
You are sending her the wrong message.
Don't you deserve to be with someone you want to be with.
Get out of this mess and get on with your life......
2007-01-15 13:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is for you, would you rather date this girl and have it become more serious, or would you rather meet some girl that you like better and have relationship become more serious. She had a lot of guts to ask you back out, but if your relationship becomes more serious, and you don't want it to and then you break it off, it would kill her. It would be better to break it off now than to break it off when it becomes really serious.
2007-01-15 13:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Renee C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, i have a question to ask you. Why did you leave her?
For me if its broken its broken. So brother move on with your life.
Bye bye
Good luck!!
2007-01-15 13:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ravie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the reason you guys broke up was serious, I wouldn't consider going back out with her. But then if it was just a regular break up like my ex boyfriend broke up with me cause he didn't want to seem like a player, so he broke up. And were just friends now, and I would look forward to going back out with him cause the reason wasn't serious. But all we do now is hook up, not entirely go out again. But then if you guys did break up with serious reasons like religion, family, then I would not have chosen to go back out with her.
2007-01-15 13:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!! There is a reason it didn't work the first time!! Too many people out there to waste your time with someone that it won't work with.
2007-01-15 13:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a reminder - there was a reason why you broke up in the first place !!
2007-01-15 13:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot. maybe things have changed. go into it with an open mind and make the best of it!
2007-01-15 13:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't truly want to then no cause then you'd be leading her on. Just ask yourself if you'll be happy w/this person. If it's yes then just have fun, if no, then move on.
2007-01-15 13:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by adorable 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋