Is it because God refuses to bless the marriage? Is God even in those marriages?
2007-01-15 13:00:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
simple answer no
God isnt in ur marridge, you and ur partner are.
2007-01-15 13:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by andybing1978 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes i feel this is true.... God does not refuse to bless the marriage because of it but at the same time if you forget God and have sex outside of marriage even though it is wrong Do you expect everything to be okay in the marriage???? You make marriage what you want it to be and i feel that sex is and should be shared in the intimacy of marriage . It is beautiful that way.
2007-01-15 13:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't speak for others, just know what I have been through. My husband and I lived together for a little over 2 years before we married legally. We were in a committed relationship based on love and trust, the only thing we didn't have was the paperwork. We have been together a total of 6 years now. We still love each other as much today (if not more) as we did the day we met. The part that I think is wrong is when men and women are "bed hopping". I honestly don't see anything wrong with sex before marriage or living with someone as long as you love that person and are committed to them.
2007-01-15 13:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't know about if it's because God refuses to bless the marriage, but I think it's because pre-marital sex is indicative of not having self-control, especially, if one acknowledges the fact that premarital sex is wrong, but still engages.
I am not being judgmental. But, sex is meant for marriage. Period. If we use sex outside of its means, then we tend to minimize it in different areas of our life. This could be pornography, cheating, swinging or anything else that comes in between the sexual relationship of two people. In turn, these are usually some of the main culprits of divorce.
Just my opinion.
2007-01-15 13:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do agree that pre marital sex is wrong. Before I found God and got saved I married my first husband we did not have sex before we got married and let me tell you that was a big or should I say little mistake. We weren't virgins we just wanted to wait to make it spacial. It wasn't he had the smallest penis I had ever seen! We got a divorce 4 months later. I guess waiting increased the risk of our divorce!
2007-01-15 13:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by corene D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you put God first in everything including your marriage, he will keep the marriage together. This is something we didn't do in the beginning of our marriage & after we were married and now my husband & I are separated, but I am praying for a restored marriage. Just know this......the devil is always on the prowl looking for someone & someone's marriage he can destroy. He destroys families & friends everyday, but he will not destroy mine.
2007-01-15 13:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by scolburn1961 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO way. what increases the DIVORCE RATE is people rushing into marriage without being serious about what marriage really is entails. Come on, everyone knows marriage isnt Everything about marriage. there's a LOT more to it than that.
2007-01-15 13:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by horticulture_girl 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think of the only area that talks approximately intercourse intimately comes from Paul. that new child exchange right into a pervert. He exchange into captivated with intercourse, forbidding something that delivered excitement or in any way distracted from the religious slavery provided by using Christianity. yet then this could be a guy who killed Christians. Oh, and he in no way met Jesus the two. seems kinda unusual thinking he wrote assorted the hot testomony.
2016-10-31 05:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by mosesjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all the time but yea it has greater risk of failing. The MAIN thing is that the relationship be based on god and then he would bless it and it will not fail.
2007-01-15 13:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. What I do believe is that people that have lived together before getting married have a higher rate of divorce.
2007-01-15 13:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
With all things constant(faith, moral upbringing), I would have to say it would probably be a parabola.
2007-01-15 13:07:14 · answer #11 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋