ok last yr during the 1st semester of 10th grade there was a grl in my class dat likes me and it was clear and every1 knew it. even the teacher. the way she looked at me, touched me etc. she's attractive to but i didn't even knew her name. i was going to ask her out to the winter ball dance but i didn't want to lead her on into a committed relationship because i am afraid of committment in a relationship. and i wasn't looking for a gf at the moment.
after the 1st semester i moved to a new town and hate it here.
sometimes i think about her and think about what would have happened if i gave it a chance. i never had a real committed relationship b4. just go out n make out w/ grls.
2007-01-15 12:49:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no committment means no chance of getting your heart broken.
where as going out and making lust with grls without committment will gurantee no heartache
2007-01-15 13:18:59 · update #1
If you're afraid of commitment, you have to start off somewhere....you cant live like that forever...well you can but I dont know if that's what you want. Like someone else said in the comments, she was looking to meet you not marry you. And before you left the town, you should have asked her 411 just to get too know her. When you like someone (4 example this girl lol) dont run before you can walk....take it slow....u start off by getting to know each other and then u take it from there.
If you dont ever talk to her again, dont take this as a mistake, take it as a learning experience and move on.
2007-01-15 13:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that its just right that u didnt make a move on her yet...because...you were going to be moving in another town anyways...but, u shouldve atleast asked her name and made friends with her...so that even if u had moved u still can communicate with each other and that would have given you the chance to get to know her more..and maybe by the time u get back to were u used to study u might be ready for a relationship...
2007-01-15 20:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by curious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first, at least you realize it was your fear that stopped you, fear of commitment that is. So only you can really answer your question...imagine if it did lead to a committed relationship--acknowledge your fears and feelings then you can determine if it's worth it and regardless of what happens you'll be prepared and will be able to approach another situation with more of an open heart/mind and less fear...
2007-01-15 20:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by dlilnjndatdid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally no. If you wasn't ready for commitment, you wasn't ready. Now just because you hate the town doesn't mean you have to hate all the girls. Though the question is how did you feel about her.
2007-01-15 20:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never pass up an opportunity to get to know a cute girl who likes you. She wasn't looking to get married, just get to know you better. Maybe you can communicate with her somehow -- send her a Valentine's Day card or something.
2007-01-15 20:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, always go with your instincts. Just make that move. Always go for it, the most she could say is no. At least then you would know. Never let opportunity pass you by.
2007-01-15 20:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really harp on the past. I mean, think about it, are you really ever going to see her again? Maybe you can look her up on myspace or facebook. You never know. Just know this, you can't change the past. You're young, you'll be fine.
2007-01-15 20:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, deja vu
2007-01-15 20:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by NASER™ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋