I like cuddling but thats it
i dont like sex i think its boring
and it hurts,
i dont like kissing i think its discusting
I think i am normal person
but a little diffrent
is there anyone else like that
2007-01-15 12:34:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
am not lesbian
2007-01-15 12:38:42 · update #1
I think you're just fine. actually I know you are. My partner and I were talking about this last night. there are tons of people who are just fine being single, and also many people who are in relationships but who don't want to have sex, or who don't want people to touch them or penetrate them. this does not say anything about a person's sexual orientation. people are just beautiful in their vast variations ^_^ there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-15 18:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal to dislike sex, especially if you're doing it in a way that's always hurting you. Sex shouldn't hurt *that* much, especially if you're proceeding correctly (by that I mean condoms and lots of lubrication, and taking your time). If it's hurting you a lot, to the point where you can't tolerate it, you might want to get an examination from your doctor.
As for boring, there are ways to have more fun, but that requires talking to your partner and agreeing to try new things.
But it's not abnormal, some people just don't like it. But it sounds like some of the reasons you don't like it can change by altering your behavior/method. So it's possible you could start to like it if you start to focus on what you like, instead of always doing what hurts you.
2007-01-15 12:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if your only reason for not liking it is because it hurts and it's boring, then you either have little to no experience (no offense) or the person you're with has no skill.
Don't really know why you don't like kissing, but I know there are also other people who don't either.
You might not like it, but that doesn't make you abnormal or anything.
2007-01-15 12:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm I don't think it suppose to hurt if it hurts thats a sign that something is wrong and you should go to the doctor. But yes there are a lot of people that don't like sex but unfortunatly that distroys relationship.
2007-01-15 12:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by shimeringstars01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! my older sister. she's 18. she hates sex because she thinks it's gross to have someone inside of you and she says it hurts. she thinks that kissing is disgusting because you shouldn't share saliva with anyone. she gets intimate by cuddling in front of a warm fire. She is pretty normal, though. There are plenty of guys who want to date her cause they think she's hot,and she has tons of friends. Damn, you guys are a lot alike.
2007-01-15 12:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I don't get it. It should only hurt the first time if you are with someone who knows how to do it right. I don't get the kissing either, I love kissing. To each there own I guess, good luck finding someone who shares your opinion, you're gonna need it.
2007-01-15 12:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is one of the best feelings in the world! I don't understand where you're coming from. Next time try buying some lube, you may enjoy yourself better....
2007-01-15 12:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. I mean, I like kissing, but sex, I'd just rather not. You're not alone.
2007-01-15 12:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by kaitlynelizabethx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u didnt find yet right person
2007-01-15 12:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Clubber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're asexual.
2007-01-15 16:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋