my b/f and i broke up in november we goyt back together christams night everything was cool at first but now he's back to doing thesame ol' stuff. last friday he left with a girl while i was visiting my family, he doesnt know i saw him though. ii sent him a message on MySpace telling him that i was sick of his lies and cheating and he needed to make up his mind where he wanted to be. he replied by tellin me that i'm still his sideline B**** and that he just needed 2 get away from me 4 the weekend. the weekend is over but he still hasnt come home. i know i deserve better but i love him sooo much what should i do?
2007-01-15 12:23:16 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It doesn't sound like he has any respect for you. I think you should probably cut your losses and start looking for a guy who will treat you like you're the only woman in the world for him. The longer you stay with your boyfriend, the more emotionally involved you'll get, and the harder it will be to break up with him. Also, every time he behaves badly and you stay with him, you're telling him it's all right for him to do whatever it is that he's done.
2007-01-15 12:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Judi 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get rid of the turd burglar! Why would you want to hang around and wait for a douchebag like that just to be hurt again? Or you could get back together for makeup sex and give him a Cleveland Steamer. (after you get your rocks off, of course). That'll really get your point across and I don't think you'll be seeing him again. You gotta do some preparation for this one. The day or days before, eat strichtly a Mexican diet. I've found that sloppy enchiladas do the best. Those will really get the bowels movin. Anywho, you gotta be on top when the loving commences, and when its over, pop a squat on his chest and leave a steaming turd right between his manboobs...Then say thanks for the cheap screw and wish his dumba*s luck in his sorry life. He WILL get the point that you're not taking it anymore. Good luck with this one sister! And I hope the next guy isnt as big of an a*s clown as this one.
2007-01-15 12:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by mr.peanut7287 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are REALLY honest with yourself, you will realize that you don't really LOVE him. You love someone that can be that cruel to you??? Are you just afraid to be alone?
Dump this guy!!! He obviously doesn't care about you. Face it. As much as it will hurt, you will be better off...and you will be available when you meet a decent guy. I've been there! Right now you think you might die without him.....but trust me....you WILL get over him and when you look back you will wonder how you could have been that stupid!!! Trust me...that pain fades away in no time.....and you will be better off and you will at least respect yourself.
2007-01-15 12:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by youizbaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now first ask yourself "if my best friend told me teh same thing what would I tell her?" And why do you love him? Lets be honest here you love who he WAS and what you WANT him to be not who he IS now. I am sure you had good times and I know thats why you fell in love with him. But honey realize he isn't that person anymore and you Do deserve someone better and you WILL find someone better. I have been in your place before and it is hard and you will cry adn scream and then you WILL get over it. And you will be a better person for it. Love yourself enough to leave.
2007-01-15 12:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by en0279 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel like you love him, but face it Honny he is using you for a peice of ***. Dont let this happen. Your Right YOU Do Deserve Better.
Men like that just want to be in control and if you let it happen now it will continue to happen and it could led to alot worse. I have seen women who come to the abuse meetings and It starts out so *nothing* he just needed his space, needed to get away, she really didnt mean anything, etc. Dont Let Yourself get into a situation that you will loose control of and believe me you will. Just asking if you should leave shows that youknow it is not right the way he is treating you.I know you love him, Well the feelings you have right know. I dont mean to hurt you and make you feel like Im cutting him down. Just think of how you feel when he does these things. Get out NOW! Do not get STUCK Living that way.
2007-01-15 12:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by H. D. Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave NOW while you still have the chance.I was in a 7yr HORRIBLE relationship with a guy that swore up and down that he loved me but he shi**ed on me every chance he had.He cheated on me way over a couple times and he talked to me like i was nothing.It got worse and worse cuz i kept letting him do it.Once a guy see that youre his bi*ch thats what you'll always be.Once he sees he can treat you like that he'll keep doing it and it will get worse.Next he'll start beating you.JUST GET OUT!!!
2007-01-15 14:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl . . . he called you a sideline B*tCh. That shows absolutely no respect. That in conjunction with the cheating should be grounds for an immediate trade to another more lucrative (and attractive) football team!
2007-01-15 12:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by blaak_grl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think its best if you leave. I was with my parnter for five years who did the same, and in the end he was the one who broke it off with me!!!! BUt thank god he did as now im with a fantastic guy who even proposed to me a month ago. You deserve someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. people will treat you they way you let them, get out and heal, then you find a person who truly deserves you. It will only hurt for a lill while trust me, and it will be worth it in the end!!
2007-01-15 12:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.....I don't know that much about being in love but I do know that it hurts really bad to love someone so much && not be loved back && treated right in return. So in my opinon, GIRL YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM!!! If he's gonna call you his sideline ***** then that's not someone that's treating you right, nor deserves you. You are worth so much more.
Bump him && find a REAL man!!!
2007-01-15 12:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and get yourself some respect. How can you allow to have someone treat you like that? What would you say to your best friend if she was experiencing the same thing?
If you KNOW what you need...then DO IT!
I feel very frustrated that people who know what to do don't decide to do what they need to do! What are you waiting for? What do you expect?
He's told you what you are, are you going to let yourself be used like that?
It's your choice, I just hope you make the right one.
2007-01-15 12:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋