ok..when i was 10.now i'm 13...i had mi first bf...we kissed every once in a while..we played wresteling on tha grass..kissed while no'ones looking..things like that..tha next day..he took me to his house..showed me around..then went to his room..pluged in tha video games...and pushed me on his bed..he sed: lets do it..but i pushed him away..and slapped him across his face..the scar's still there today..but we're still friends today.. anyways...was it rong for me to hav pushed him and sed no????? it's haunting me..i've neva told anyone this before...help me??
2007-01-15 12:05:17 · 26 answers · asked by LeBaNeSeHoTtIe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
God no your not wrong, dont ever question if you were wrong in a situation like that, I am an 18 year old guy and would never in my life treat a girl like that. Also some advice, dont ever talk to him again, he doesnt need to treat anyone like that.
2007-01-15 12:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that was exactly the right thing to do. If the two of you are still friends, then I guess you're fine. Just try to lessen your haunted feelings by feeling proud that you took the initiative. I mean, you were just 10? Maybe you should talk to someone about it? I know it's hard, but try talking to someone who won't freak out about it, and will give you some good advice. I hope you feel better about it soon!
2007-01-15 20:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Amaryllis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had every right to slap him and push him away. He's lucky that's all you did. At 10 you were a child and he could have been charged with attempted sexual assault. I don't know how old he was but it was not a nice thing that he did. Don't ever think that you did anything wrong. You have the right to chose when you have sex. Don't let it bother you anymore. You did the right thing.
2007-01-15 20:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was right to tell him no. You probably think about it now because you are older and wonder what it would have been like. You are not obligated in any way to do things like that to make others happy so don't feel guilty for not doing what he wanted. Wait for the right one, you only get one chance for the first time to be special. 10 is way to young, so is 13!.
2007-01-15 20:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mawm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not wrong. Never let anyone push you to doing something you are not ready for. Take your time, there is no hurry. You have so much time to experiment and explore. you are so young so just take things slow.
As for him, if he was apologetic and respectful then continue to hang out with him, but if he becomes pushy, throw him away!
2007-01-15 20:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by avishtevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It was totally right! You were only ten at the time? Wow! I was only just starting to think about boys then, so you definately did the right thing. Did you even know about sex then? Even now, you shouldn't be doing anything like that so you were definately right to do that, so don't beat yourself up about it.
2007-01-15 20:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Look into the Air 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was not wrong for u to push him away and if u like him as a friend and u think u can be open with him then talk about it cause it helps really chances r he was justfooling around with u
2007-01-15 20:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by cali_icedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wasn't wrong you had the right to prevent unwanted behavior from escalating to another level. If you had resisted, and he continued then the act is considered rape. You should not feel guilty about your decision to say no. No. regrets my dear no regrets.
2007-01-15 20:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You did the RIGHT thing. I'm proud of you Girl! So many times girls give in for fear of rejection, you have strong charachter! Do not start to question yourself, stay strong! You will be sooooo glad you did!! I promise you.
2007-01-15 20:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were completely right to have stopped him!!! Ten years old??? C'mon! Even now, at 13, you are way too young! You have many years to wait before you will be ready for sex. Don't rush it!!!!
2007-01-15 20:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by sandrajeanjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋