How do you fit in with the skinny popular girls...?

Question

how do you fit in with the skinny popular ones when youre fat and they wear a 8 and you wear a 14? im sooo confused cause one day there my friends then one day there calling me fat behind my back

Answer 1

I feel so sad for you, you should not feel like you have to fit in with these girls. I really despise people who are two-faced, there are other people out there who will want to be your friend they won't care if your a size 00 or a size 100. Please find people who are nicer to you. You are young, you will find this out in time, just try not to find out too late in life. Good Luck!

Answer 2

I just go with my sexy curves. my skinny best friend's got nothing on my nice hourglass figure.

My sister in law and I are kind of the same, she's a lovely size 0 and I am a 12/14. I look WAY BETTER in v-neck sweaters than her because of my curves. You just really have to find your self confidence and know that you look hot. If you've got the attitude it will show. Not all guys like rail thin skinny girls.

I have always beat to my own fashion drum so to speak since 8th grade. I always dressed more mature etc. I did not want to fit in. I wanted to dress appropriately. Now, at age 31, my friends all consider me the most hip dresser among us.

Some words of wisdom from somebody who was in your exact shoes in high school, those people are not your friends if they dish you like that behind your back. You can do much better than that. High school is a very rough time. Just hang in there.

And something I wish that I was told earlier in life, get out there and exercise. If you don't start now, it gets harder and harder to do as you age. You are completely average in size right now, but if it makes you unhappy or you feel unhealthy, get up and move and do something about it.

Answer 3

Omgosh! They are the ones that are fat....I mean a sizee 8! Why should they be calling you fat? You're just a person. I'm thyinking youre actually believing them and worrying over the fact that you might be fat. Dont believe anyone as long as you are comfortable with your own body. But if you arent comfortable....well then that's a whooole different story. The "popular" girls might think youre not confident with your body and thats why they might be talking behind your back. Well, to be confident all you have to do is stand up straight and it gives people the impression that you are hte most beautiful girl on this planet! But...I don't necesserily think that "being fat" is in your question. I thikn you just want to become one of the popular girls. Maybe hte "popular" girls think that youre trying to hard to be them and laughing in your face. Dont ever try to be them. whne I was younger, I wanted ot have more friends and get all the guys too. First, I strived to be popular, but later on i noticed it doesnt help, so I started being myself. After a while, I wasnt the one who was striving to be like somebody else, but people were actually trying to be my friend!!! It was happy that people liked me for me, but it was incredibly noticeable that they were actually STRIVING to be myfriend. Thats what really annoyed me and I knew why the so-called "popular" girls laughed in my face when i was trying to be their friend. But now, I'm noticing that people are trying to be my friend. Even the so-called "popular" girls are great friends with me and they accept me to be in tehir clique. This was all because I was actually being myself. So basically if you are trying to fit in, be confident, and just be yourself.

oh yea...and hte second part of your question talks about your size. Well, maybe you want to loe some weight...I'm guessing. Whyen I was younger I used to be chubbier, but now I'm a size 3/4 So, ive learned some tips from my experience of losing weight. First of all, just basically eat all of your meals, but in smaller portions. I can't explain now because my hands really hurt from asnwering tons of questions. But hte biggest tip that can really help you is if you want to beinge or overeat, and are really hungry, then try gargling minty mouthwash and waiting 15 minutes. Your urge to eat should go away.

I hope this helped you...if only a little!

Answer 4

Ahhh.......don't u know better? Girl....open up your mind and use common sense (not to be mean) but they are fakes and they're not your true friends. Call them anorexic behind their backs and see what they do...they'll know it hurts ur feelings and their's as well. If I were u...I would've smacked them. Stop hanging around with thema nd dotn fit in with them, u dont want to be like them do u? Sure they might have nice bodies and all...but u have a heart of gold nad one day, a boy will ask u out and you'll get married toegether.

Answer 5

they're obvoiusly not ur friends then cuz they're making fun of you.It's a major decision,but if you want to be like them,you'll have to lose weight for sure and work out and then just go from there.I'm not saying to be super skinny,but a size 8 would be about right.I go between a size 6 or 8 depending on the style,fit,and store that I go to like Old Navy,Macy's,Tillys,Pac sun or zumiez. Thats just the way it is,its cool to be toned and in shape then be skinny or chuncky.I'm lucky cuz I have to watch what I eat and work out a lot cuz I play soccer on two teams and practice hard core 4 days a week so I get in shape with something that I like and I'm good at.You'll just have to find something that you like and do it often.

Answer 6

SIze 8 isnt really that skinny. Get some new friends or do soemthing about it! But you have to consider that some ppl are just small and some are just a little bigger.

Answer 7

Actually, 14 is the averge american's woman's dress size. So compared to the rest of the country, you're average. But I still think that 8 isn't really that skinny, but thats me...

Answer 8

look if they treat u like crap there probably not the bestes friends 4 u. If u feel insecure bout ur weight than just go on a Diet!!!!!And you dont need to look like them ur face ur personality is probably way better than theres.If u wanna find ppl who r popular to hang out with make sure there nice 2 u and they dont judge by the way u look=).

Answer 9

Maybe they`re not your friends if they call you fat behind your back. You don`t have to fit in, just be healthy and be yourself. I know it sounds corny, but it`s good advice. Trust me, it is.

Answer 10

i guess i'm not 'popular' but i'm not a dork either, so i have like 'status' sort of at my school, and sometimes i hang out with the super skinnies :) i think that if you dress cool and sort of like them (but not too much cuz they'll think ur a wannabe), they'll probably notice. but if ur dressing hot, u have to act like ur hot. i mean, it's totally wannabe if u dress good but have a bad attitude. this is what i do--try to keep up with the trends, and act confident (but not too stuck up or valley girl) and just try...and it workds! good luck! :P