this school year, i've been wearing pink a lot, for the 1st time. not that i dont wear pink at all. i rarely wear pink but now i wear pink every 1 or 2 weeks. well, my bestfriend keeps on pointing at me and tells me 'OMG! ur wearing pink!'. it gets pretty annoying. she's sayin that to my other bestfriend and she's annoyed too.
i mean every single girl will wear pink once in their lives. y can't she just close her mouth about us wearing pink? it's not that much of a suprise anymore. how can we tell her she's annoying and kind of hurting us b/c of her commenting on what we're wearing? it makes me want to just stop wearing the pink shirt that i really like. help please.
thanks.
2007-01-15 12:00:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, if she is one of your best friends, then she'll understand when you tell her that she's making your pink shirt too big of a deal, and if she gets her feelings hurt, or gets mad at you for this, then she wasn't a good friend in the first place... best friends don't care what you wear, they care who you are...
2007-01-15 12:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by DSGG424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get sensitive over it. Say something like, "Yeah, and your point?" Or "So?". Because, the reality is, there's no big deal about it, and there shouldn't be! Just don't be bothered about it. If you get upset over this, think about it: How pathetic are they to have nothing better to do than to observe the days you wear pink? Isn't there a war going on or something else that's more worrying and disturbing to think about, than your friend wearing pink? They have your sympathy. Wear whatever you like and whatever you feel comfortable in, because the only person who can tell you what you can and can't wear, is YOU.
2007-01-15 20:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick a color that she's wearing, and say "Oh my god, you're wearing -whatever color- again!" After you do it a few times, she'll get the hint.
She probably doesn't mean to be offensive, it's just a way of making conversation.
2007-01-15 20:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Judi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should definitely tell her something. If she is really a friend she won't get angry. Because one way or the other your probably going to end up blurting it out in a bad way and you may hurt her feelings.
2007-01-15 20:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is trying to supress a part of you and your other best friends individuality. What's worse, is she sees that is something that you and your best friend have in common, and might fear what else would bring you two closer together than either one of you are to her. I wouldn't let her do it; wear pink all you want, make your other best friend, your best, best friend.
2007-01-15 20:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her gently so you don't hurt her feelings!! i know i know.. she is the one who keeps hurting you and commenting and all but she probably mean no harm.. she is just used to seeing you by a certain way, you know. so just calmly tell her OK!
2007-01-15 20:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that she shouldn't care about your clothing.
2007-01-15 20:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋