In early September, I was with this guy. I am afraid that some of his seminal liquids might have come in contact with me. Ever since that day, I have realized I am too young and not ready for this type of commitment. Plus, my family is so strict with me that I cannot do anything (infact, I dont know even know my stupid mind made me stay with the guy...). Anyway, ever since that ill fated day my life has been MISERABLE. I have no one to talk to. I keep thinking I am pregnant. 3 days after this incident with the guy, I had my full 4-5 day period. I have had my periods ever since (4 in all, usually lasting 4-5 days and all normal). Even if I gain a little weight I go crazy thinking Im pregnant or that I am beginning to show. The guilt is really eating me alive. Should I worry? My period for january was due today, and although I have all the classic PMS symptoms, it is not here :(. I have heard some women have FULL HEAVY bleeding (periods) during pregnancy. Is that true?
2007-01-15 11:56:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Should I be showing by now? I would be like 16.5 weeks (a bit more thna 4 months). If it helps, I am 5'6" and 115 lbs.
Ugh. I can't even sleep at night the guilt bothers me so much. Oh and I can't do a HPT because if I EVER get caught, I'd seriously die. That's how bad my situation is. So please don't lecture me.....I feel broken enough already :(
2007-01-15 11:56:47 · update #1
No, you aren't pregnant. Before you sleep with anyone else, see a doctor and get some birth control, and also use a condom so you don't get any diseases.
2007-01-15 12:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by gelfling 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear!!
as a parent i would just say it does not sound very likely that your pregnant as youve had four periods in a row. you can get similar symptoms when your due or on, so to speak which are like pregnancy symptoms. i would say that this recent mishap of not seeing it yet would be regarded as a 'phantom pregnancy'. if you keep thinking/worrying about it so much you soon believe you are. my advice is to wait at least ten days. go to your local walk-in health centre or ring your local family planning clinic and arrange for a pregnancy test to be done even just to put your mind at rest. its free! i bet if you stop worrying about it you will come on within the next week.
2007-01-15 20:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by emzc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure u would know if u were 4 months pregnant. If u've gotten 4 periods since this incident, i wouldnt worry, but also u can just take a preg test and find out right away,especially if this happened that long ago..i highly doubt ur pregnant tho
2007-01-15 20:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, whatever you do you HAVE to get a test to rule out pregnancy. This is just stressing you out and that's probably why you are not having your period. Not from being pregnant. There are places you can go to get free and anonymous testing to find out for sure. Even if you fear your parents finding out, you would be hurting yourself and an unborn baby to not find out for sure and get the proper medical treatment. Good luck in whatever you do but please put your mind at ease and take a pregnancy test. At least if it does come out positive you will know whats going on.
2007-01-15 20:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Laceyfromcali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pregnant.
Dont listen to all the rude people they act like they werent young once upon a time. lol
Girl just be careful in the future and your period will be here soon if not then find the nearest planned parenthood to go to or take the pregnancy test in a grocery store restroom when your parents are shopping.
I dont think you are though.
good luck and take care
2007-01-15 22:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by princesandy2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't make this incident ruin your everyday life activity. You should go out and have some fun. Most likely, you're not pregnant at all. There really is no guilt. You learn from your mistake. Cheer up! =) You only got 100 years to live. Make life to its fullest.
2007-01-15 20:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that freaked out about this, take a pregnancy test. But the odds that your pregnant, are very slim to none. You should have gained weight by now, if you were pregnant.
2007-01-15 20:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes by now your period should of stopped, and you should of gained some weight (and if you have coincidence) if you're still worried get tested with those ones at home or see a doctor.
2007-01-15 20:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by blmr0123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can have periods when you are pregnant, my fiances mom had her's.
and yes you would look like yopu had a beer gut if you were that small and were 4 months pregnant
2007-01-15 20:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by look behind you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol believe me you would know if your pregnant at 4 months. the baby would be half full grown inside you. If you have to ask your NOT pregnant.
2007-01-15 20:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jungle Luv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋