what experiences made you realize that there are people meant to stay only for a while in your life? how did you let go?
2007-01-15 11:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Well it took a long time, but many years after the death of my precious baby boy, I do not wish to change things because now my daughter is here and she was also meant to be.
2007-01-15 12:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by crct2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learned once that everything was impermanent. First it was told to me. Then I gradually began to see it on my own. Nothing is meant to last so we have to take each moment for what it has to offer us. There truly is no time real other than this moment. Past and future are both ideas. And as real as they may seem, now will be ever present. I believe if you take each moment a step at a time and truly realize and accept the impermanence of all things, you won't have much of a problem letting go of basically anything.
2007-01-15 13:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Answerer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex an I were together from November to March. I realized and joke about her being my "shortest days" girl as this is the time of Autumn and Winter where the days are short but the nights....hehehe were so long. I still to this day haven't completly gotten over her and it's been a year. Oh well.
2007-01-15 12:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As they say , in the eastern Philosophy, YOU came alone into this world and YOU shall leave this world alone. In between you are witnessing only the drama of life unfolding before you. You watch one player come and act and then another and then , yet , another.
Sometimes you get so engrossed in the Play that you fantasize and menatlly or dreamily, you start to act out yourself.
You can visualise this yourself if you can go back in time and you were clinging to your mother , for life and would not let go. The same mother , who was everything to you , in your life , you ( not literally) dumped in the old age home for her to fend for herself and you went away.
tell me , honestly, did they "go" from your life or ..... you "went" away from them ?
2007-01-15 12:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when to let go when you put things into perspective. Were you truly happy? Was she truly happy? Then you except the fact that it's over, hit the gym hard, and keep moving.
2007-01-15 12:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitching across the country. I would meet somone and get to know them but sure as the sun raises I am bound to hit the road again.
I just move on.
2007-01-15 12:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like a log floating in a river meets other log momentary and let it go silently in the night.
2007-01-15 12:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone or anything is "meant" to be. Each individual makes the decision whether someone is in their life or not. Barring death it's your choice.
2007-01-15 12:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by Scott O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seen "Sweet November" lately?
2007-01-19 08:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by KorieSmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my world fell apart.
I'm very happy alone now, thank you.
2007-01-15 12:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋