In early September, I was with this guy. I am afraid that some of his seminal liquids might have come in contact with me. Ever since that day, I have realized I am too young and not ready for this type of commitment. Plus, my family is so strict with me that I cannot do anything (infact, I dont know even know my stupid mind made me stay with the guy...). Anyway, ever since that ill fated day my life has been MISERABLE. I have no one to talk to. I keep thinking I am pregnant. 3 days after this incident with the guy, I had my full 4-5 day period. I have had my periods ever since (4 in all, usually lasting 4-5 days and all normal). Even if I gain a little weight I go crazy thinking Im pregnant or that I am beginning to show. The guilt is really eating me alive. Should I worry? My period for january was due today, and although I have all the classic PMS symptoms, it is not here :(. I have heard some women have FULL HEAVY bleeding (periods) during pregnancy. Is that true?
2007-01-15 11:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Should I be showing by now? I would be like 16.5 weeks (a bit more thna 4 months). If it helps, I am 5'6" and 115 lbs.
Ugh. I can't even sleep at night the guilt bothers me so much. Oh and I can't do a HPT because if I EVER get caught, I'd seriously die. That's how bad my situation is. So please don't lecture me.....I feel broken enough already :(
2007-01-15 11:56:01 · update #1
any time you have sexual relations you run the risk. if you are that worried get a home kit
2007-01-15 11:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by silverback487 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you are pregnant. Go and take a test so that you can put your mind at ease. If it is eating you up that much then you should refrain from sexual relations until you know you are ready and can handle the possible consequences. I've heard that taking a teaspoon of crushed sesame seeds with warm water can bring on your period so you could try that for today.
2007-01-15 12:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just expected your period to start today, it is probably too soon to label it as "late" Cycles aren't always exact- even if you are used to them being predictable. Chances are, if you have gotten your period regularly btw Sept til now, and you haven't had any other "relations" you probably aren't pregnant. If you don't get your period this month, and you are worried, do an HPT somewhere other than your home if you don't feel comfortable doing one there. It will make you feel better. Other factors besides pregancy, such as stress can also lead to skipped cylces.
2007-01-15 12:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Heather P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as somebody who has taken a ton of preg tests purely to have all of them come out destructive i be responsive to the way you're freaking out and annoying. even even though it seems such as you're fantastic. next time be greater careful although. pulling out does not paintings. rhythm (purely doing it on days appropriate round her era) does not paintings. take it from my buddy who have been given 2 females pregnant in a era of three months and is now finding at penitentiary time simply by fact he won't be able to arise with the money for the baby help money. and remember, in case you screw up or she screws up you at the instant are not the only ones who will go through. a toddler will go through too. sturdy interest on getting the plan B, that's greater accountable than lots of 30 year previous adult men i be responsive to. and FYI, maximum OTC preg tests are merely approximately one hundred% valuable. that's plenty greater ordinary to get a faux constructive result than a faux destructive. you could oftentimes breathe ordinary if the attempt is destructive
2016-10-20 06:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me sister, yer not pregnant. it is totally normal to feel like you may be pregnant after something like that. especially if you are young. and if you are that worried go to the store and buy a pregnancy test. sometimes when you are stressed it will keep you from starting yer period. and a just a little tough love you need to get over it. its been months. people make mistakes you need to forgive yourself
2007-01-15 12:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one if u have been having ya period ever since then, then u shudnt be pregnant. jus to stop worrying either u or let that guy of yours buy u a pregnancy test and get it over with so u can stop fretting.
and did yall have unprotected sex that day for some sperm to get inside u??
2007-01-15 11:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by CaribbeanChica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't do a HPT just go to a clinic and get checked(most clinics have confidentiality rules;where in your case wont tell your parents) if your not pregnant just make sure you don't do the same mistake EVER again.
2007-01-15 12:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it isn't if you are pregnant that means that you can't have your period. So if you don't have your period at the time you are suppose to.. then there is a problem..otherwise it's ok..don't get too worry is all in your concience you know what you did so dont get too worried aboutn it.
2007-01-15 12:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by rocker chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your period because there is no fertilized egg for it to hold. The lining of the uterus is what your period is and if there is no baby there for it to protect you have your period
2007-01-15 13:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by chef_wardell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youve had periods i wouldnt worry
but if you are in doubt take a test :)
2007-01-15 12:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋