2007-01-15 11:44:29 · 29 answers · asked by wat_u_get_is_wat_u_see 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sweethart,
i know its hard but tell her. its never as bad as you think. the early you find out the more choice you have.
if you really carnt tell you parents what about a older sister or aunty???
i was in the same boat 22 years agao and was suprised with the responce i recieved from my dad (mum died when i was a baby).
good luck
if you want to a honest chat about what it is like to have a child young then please email me.
see honey your not the first and you wont be the last!!!!!
2007-01-16 03:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by tink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a test first and find out for definite. It's best to make sure before you go worrying her. You'll have to do it sooner or later once you find out though. The longer you leave it the harder it will be. If you get it out in the open she will be there for support. I was scared of what my mother would think but once she got over the shock she was great. But anyway, if you keep the baby, you will have to tell her at some point in time. If it's too hard ask your sister or someone close to you to be in the same room. It will be hard but once you do it it will be so much easier. By the way just say 'mum I'm pregnant' that's all you can say really.
2007-01-15 11:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by gemwi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She might say a lot of things. If she loves you, and God only knows why, but I'll bet she does, she'll get over it. I don't know how old you are, but bottom line Mums are there for you and believe me every girl has had to face her mum over something like this. I'm sure she's a good sort. Most mums I know are.
2007-01-15 12:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI , WELL I'M 20 YEARS OLD AND I,VIE TWO DAUGHTERS MY OLDEST IS FIVE AND MY YOUNGEST IS TWO, WHEN I BECAME PREGNANT WITH MY OLDEST CHILD I TRY ED TO MAKE MY SELF BE LIVE THAT THE PROBLEM WOULD GO AWAY BUT IT DID,NT. I COULD,T TELL MY MOM THAT I WAS PREGNANT I HAD TO ASK MY OLDER SISTER TO DO IT. IT WAS THE WORSE FEELING EVER I WAS SO FRIGHTENED. WHEN I WENT HOME AFTER MY SISTER TELLING HER I FELT WORSE BECAUSE I KNEW SHE KNEW. SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAY ED HAVE YOU SOME THING TO TELL ME? I STARTED TO CRY SHE SAID WELL DO YOU? AND I SAID I'M SORRY MUM I'M PREGNANT. AND SHE HUG ED ME AND SAID DO NT WORRY LOVE IT HAPPEN EDS YOU WILL LEARN BY YOUR MISTAKES, AND A BABY IS A CLEAN THING SOMETHING TO BE VERY PROUD, AND AT THE END OF THE DAY IT WILL GET RARED, I WAS IN SHOCK I THOUGHT SHE WOULD KILL ME. IT IS A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE TO GO THROUGH WITH MY SECOND PREGNANCY I TEX TED MY MUM. I WOULD BE HAVING ANY MORE AS AT MINUTE MY HANDS ARE TOTALLY FULL WITH TWO DAUGHTERS UNDER FIVE SO DON,T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE XXXXXXXXXXX GUD LUCK
2007-01-18 08:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really hard but you will just have to work up the courage and tell her. Of course she is going to be shocked as I'm sure you are. Tell her you think you might be and you need to go to the doctors sometimes home tests can be wrong (TRUST ME). Once she is over the initial shock I'm sure she will be there for you and support you. You are still her daughter and she will always love you. So if harsh words are said just remember her love for you still remains. Tell her sooner rather than later you will need her support. Good luck x
2007-01-16 23:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by claire k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are pregnant then what your mum is going to say will be the least of your problems. she maybe more understanding than you think and if you are pregnant your going to need a friend and who better than the person who knows about this stuff like your mum
2007-01-18 10:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by john paul c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear.
go to the doctors find out weather you are or not there is no need to worry if you are not.
can you talk to a friend, a teacher any one really some one to listen to you at the school that i went to there was a learning mentor that you could go and talk to in confidence.
they will give you the advice you need. first go to the doctors they will do a test for you if you don't want to do that then go and buy a test they are not that expensive .
then if it is 100% sit down with your mum yes she will be concerned but at the end of the day she loves you and will be there for you
good luck sweetie
2007-01-16 22:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by NICOLA W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you might be and let her support you through it, Mums crave that to be able to help. Tell her you know you've screwed up but you are willing to accept the conseques.
I was 17 when i fell pregnant with my daughter, i lived away from home, buand told mum after i found out, she was upset and disapointed more so because seh had dreams of me having a career first, but now she knows how happy i am is is happy too, she dotes on her grandkids.
If you need to talk im available. rlm1985@yahoo.com.au
2007-01-15 12:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bite the bullett and go for it. Whatever she says she will have to know sooner or later. I got to nearly 5 mopnths pregnant before i told my mum. It was hard until my daughter was born and since then none of us have looked back. I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-01-16 20:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by MALANIE E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to make sure that ur 100% pregnant before approaching to her. Cause in ur question u said that u "might" so just in case check if u really are; cause if u told her and later found out that ur not pregnant...that's going to be worse. If u want to tell her....make sure she's in a good mood. Sit with her and tell her what has been happening...see what she says. It's better if u tell her first then to let her find out later by herself from ur stomach getting bigger...or even worser from some one else. good luck with that.
2007-01-15 12:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋