Okay well my girlfriend just broke up with me, and Im not sure why. I think she wanted me to kiss her but we only went out for 6 weeks, also I -acidentally- called her a different girls name, but why would she break up with me? I bought her everything!
2007-01-15 11:38:26 · 38 answers · asked by hurleyboy2011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK. just because in six weeks you would buy her everything that doesn't mean anything. Remember you can't win love with money or gifts. Think about y she broke up with u?! in six weeks you didn't kiss and to top if off u call her another girls name!!
THAT'S JUST WRONG! Good Luck!
2007-01-19 09:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the guy was self centered, a jerk, a slob, nasty (filthy), always stinks, always stalking her and so much more. She may have realized she deserves to be treated much better than as a sex toy. Be romantic, loving, respectful, treat her like a queen,and do not always take her to a fast food place, taker her to a romantic restaurant as well.
As for the latter part, about you and your girl friend. Bad, never call her an-others name, for that tells her you are cheating. Also, You do not buy love, you earn it.
If apologizing does not work...Treat the next girl friend much better. It is not easy to change ones self, yet you may take a good honest look at all of your past breakups. Then change what you see may be wrong on your side. There are two sides to every break up.
2007-01-15 11:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by nmd_elkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are more shocked that she broke up with u than u are hurting. From personal experience i know that if i am with a guy or like i guy i can't wait to kiss him and touch him, so i have no idea what was going on in your case of no kissing for 6 weeks **** i would leave too if my man did not kiss me in 6 weeks. anyway if u really want to know why she left u, u just need to ask her i am sure she will tell u why.
2007-01-15 11:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it isn't about what you give a girl its about how you treat her our feelings get hurt when you call us old girlfriend names b/c it sends us signals that your thinking about your X's also REALLY 6 WEEKS and you still hadn't kissed her well next time make sure at least on the end of the 5 date you've kissed her
also when you drop off the girl if she dangles and kinda plays with her keys it means shes waiting for a kiss so come 95% fo the way and let her come the last 5%
good luck in your future relationships
2007-01-15 11:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by godsgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem! You think you bought her everything should make her happy. Girls are a lot more complex than that. You have to win her heart. You need to find out what is the most important thing for her, and do that for her. You lost her because you don't really understand her.
2007-01-15 11:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someplace interior the middle to be honest. in the previous each thing they could call you while their inebriated asking to come back at the same time and after a week or so it in many situations finally ends up with a i'm over you kind message then it settles down. no person likes being dumped and in case you metallic have emotions for the guy it particularly is purely generic to attempt and combat for them. If somebody broke up with me and that i theory they won't be certain then i might chase them to attempt and win them back i think of. asserting that however i've got in no way been dumped!! i've got had a mutual brake up which became fantastic and we are nonetheless incredibly solid friends yet this is the closest i've got come to being dumped.
2016-12-12 12:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, you sound a bit unsensitive to me.
If you called her by different names, its a sign that u werent thinking about her or that you were thinking back to a fun time you had with another girl.
Also, not kissing a girl after you went out for almost 2 months is a sign that u want to stay friends.
Trying to bribe her by buying stuff isnt mature either.
I think that u sent out all the wrong signals.
If I was ur girl, I would break up with u too.
Srry ^^
2007-01-15 11:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will break up with my boyfriend if he cheats on me or if he lies to me. I think 6 weeks you should not be calling her another girls name unless you are cheating and she done the right thing you wouldn't like it if she called you another guy name but different people things different things maybe she found someone else.
2007-01-15 11:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by D'Asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buying her stuff is really secondary, I'd say it was calling her a wrong name that may have done it, and you dated 6 weeks and never kissed her? She probably decided you weren't interested. I will break up with a guy if he gets bossy or jealous, or has an angry like violent temper side to him. Or trying to be my boss or act like I'm tupid.
2007-01-15 11:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you called her another girl's name...that's a BIG deal in the mind of the girl. She got pretty offended, she was probably all starry-eyed with you and then you go and say something dumb like calling her another girl's name.
That could've been it for sure.
That shows you're insensitive, sneaky, a liar and untrustworthy...all those just because you got mixed up with a name!
2007-01-15 11:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋