I just had an argument between my best friend Karen and I don't know what to do because me and my friends were just joking around. I don't know what to do. I said all of this was just jokes. She said yeah i get it and it was a mean, dumb joke. I don't know what to do help me PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 11:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wait a couple days and see if she feels better and if that doesnt work out write a note saying sorry shell agree
2007-01-15 12:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess what you said really hurt your friend, even if you didn't intentionally mean to hurt her. The best thing you can do is give her a little time. Act normal, and be extra nice, to make sure she understands that you weren't trying to hurt her on purpose, or anything. She probably just needs some time to let her hurt or anger subside. It won't last too long, unless what you said was really mean and dumb. If her silence lasts too long, then really go up to her and sincerely apologize for what you said, and promise it won't happen again. Even if this is embarrassing for you, you should do it, because you don't want to lose this friendship, right? I'm sure it's fine though. Just give her some time to calm down. I hope everything works out between you and your friend! ^__^
2007-01-15 11:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Amaryllis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, WAS IT A MEAN DUMB JOKE?? if so, tell her you don't know what the hell you were thinking and you were just doing it to "fit in" and that you are extremely sorry.
To be honest, there is NO reason, EVER to make fun of anyone in a joking manner, unless you are an adult and that is the way you have ALWAYS been with your friends.
Maybe you should sit down and explain to her that you are sorry and let her talk and you listen!
2007-01-15 11:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember...a joke is no longer a joke if it hurts or offends the other person. I don't care what the reason was, it is not worth loosing your friend over. Work it out!
2007-01-15 11:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Suzan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to be a Little more ernest with your apology. Give it a couple of days and go back to her alone and apologize again. Tell her it was stupid of you and don't do it again. Good luck.
2007-01-15 11:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanette E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry and that you didn't try to hurt her it was just a joke buy her something she really likes maybe she might change her mind
2007-01-15 11:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jhene Chilumbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, Choose the one that you think is best. Don't be afraid of listing to yourself. Follow where you heart leads you.
2007-01-15 11:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sarbazeirani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clarify things and give her break to think and wait to see the results, if she goes away, promise her not to repeat it again and ask her forgivness.
2007-01-15 11:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy flowers. write a sincere thank you note that includes no explanations or excuses, just appologies.
2007-01-15 11:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by crazyjmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋