What reason do people have to give marriage another try after having the first one end in divorce and heartbreak? We all thought our first one was the ONE or we would not have done it. I'm just curious as to what things other people think...and yes I am thinking about giving marriage another try. Oh and remember what your parents told you, "If you don't have anything good to say, then don't say anything at all"
2007-01-15 11:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by mvas800 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is always a chance in life that you can love more than once and I know and I am hoping that I one day will find love again people make mistakes and get into the marriage race too quickly, and then we find out who that person really is and realize that they really were not the one. So I think that it is ok to move on and look for that one, what is the point of just being alone and memories are great, I have great ones and bad ones and if I would not have taken the chance I would not have any memories and how boring would that be?
2007-01-15 11:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by twinki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, there are still feelings in a marriage. Many times, when you see the meanness and pettiness, that means that the partners are deeply hurt and angry, and are lashing out. The most compelling reason for giving marriage another try is: you see the future, and if that person is not in it, it doesn't seem as bright. You'll be okay, but you will miss the laughter, the shoulder to cry on, the hand to hold when things get rough. You'll be fine, but your highs won't seem so near the sun, your lows will be sadder and wiser. Humans are creatures of emotion; the strongest of these (besides the need to procreate) is to be wanted and desired--in short, loved. We want to be the end-all, be-all for someone, whether we are straight or gay. The main reason: because, despite it all, you still love that person.
2007-01-15 19:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would give marriage another try, as i know all people are not the same. and sometimes even if we have suffered terribly that it is best to move on and put ourselves back out there, we may just get what we want the next time. just because one marriage ended badly, doesn't mean the next one is doomed. got to have faith, and hope. got to trust someone, we can be more selective and careful with the next one, but also we have to accept their are no guarantees.
2007-01-15 19:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43 and have never married. That's because I take marriage seriously. If I met the right woman, I wouldn't rule it out, but I have thought I did a couple of times, and I was wrong, but my intuition--luckily--kept me from making an even bigger mistake than I was already making.
Life. Relationships are hard. They start off easy enough, and then as reality sets in, and you start asking yourself the important questions.....
2007-01-15 20:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People marry and remarry for numerous reasons. Do what make you happy even if it take you 8 marriages. just take it slow and know that person. does he/she make you happy, is he/she bringing the same thing you're bringing to the plate, is this someone you want by your side at all times, is this the person you want to have kids with and grow old with. will this person be there for you if you were down and out.
2007-01-15 19:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have never ever been married but i can say that if i was to get married and it end in divorce then i would be heart broken, but i think that in life we have more than one love out there but i think that we have one true love, and i strongly belive that everything happens for a reason.so would defintly keep my hear open to love and try again, i mean how many times do we have our heart brokens but we still continue to love again, you just got to try again, so i think you wanting to getmarried is wonderful and you never know that she might be the one i mean if she already has you thinking about marriage then that right there tells me she a good lady good luck:)
2007-01-15 19:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, if you found someone great and you want to be with them, and you think it is a more compatible relationship, you owe that person (and yourself) the chance to be husband and wife, and to have a beautiful wedding together, and have a commitment with the right person for you. People make mistakes sometimes and marry the wrong person. What if youre right for someone out there, they need the chance to find their soul mate
2007-01-15 20:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Michele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being alone for the rest of your life would be my no. 1 reason.
2007-01-15 19:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im just not willing to give marriage another try,the 1st one sucked!
2007-01-15 19:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No reason. One marriage is enough.
2007-01-15 19:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋