I met a very special man back in Sept. 2006. He was very brilliant, kind, and was the gentlest of souls. He passed away on Dec. 5th, he took his own life. His abrupt departed was a complete shock. It broke my heart. I wished I had told him how I felt before he passed away.
If I did not tell you in words, I told you in my actions.
How could you have doubted it so?
Even when I was sick, I went to see you so I could make you happy.
There were so many times when I just want to hold you in my arms and kiss away your fears and pain. I loved you in the purest and simplest of ways. You were in many ways my counterpart and better half. If you had chosen to live, I would have held you in my arms and told you in person. I thought we had a lifetime to discover each other.
For anyone out there who reads this and is thinking of taking their life, please reconsider. All problems can be resolved. Please tell someone, ask for help. You are loved. Please choose to live. Life is what you make of it. “We can not predict the future but we can invent it.”
(Please do not respond with crude, hurtful, or self righteous comments.)
2007-01-15 11:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by justine 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I am so sorry. I hope anyone who is or has considered taking their own life will read this and sees what taking your own life can do to others.
2007-01-15 11:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rarely a day goes by that the thought of suicide does not enter my mind. The thought of not hurting mentally or physically is very appealing. Some of my problems are physiological and some are mental. Fortunately some good doctors have helped me a lot. Sometimes the solution to a problem, perceived by others to be solvable, is going to continue to hurt no matter what. Don't be quick to judge us until your life is ground down. Depression is a cruel master at times no matter how you try and serve.
2007-01-15 11:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could ought to decline. Being a Christian with Buddhist dispositions, I doubt i could experience gentle under the guideline of fundamentalist Christians. regrettably, many misread the Bible and use it to sell hate and prejudice and worry. Love and tolerance and easy-weight kindness are actually not priorities among many "Christians." If Christ himself have been in value, then issues could be very cool and human beings could be predicted to handle one yet another kindly and help those much less fortunate than ourselves. The rules could be utilized equitably to all; there could be NO profiling! There could be no tolerance for human beings and massive businesses who thieve from the human beings. God do unlike grotesque!!!! yet Christ isn't right here to rule, so nix on the theocracy.
2016-10-31 05:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the inspirational note, I hope it will reach someone who needs to hear it! Sorry about your friend! Peace!
2007-01-15 11:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by lainey lain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for your words of hope as I'm certain it will help those believing their life has no purpose.
2007-01-15 11:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel like judging but i think people who take their own life meaning they dont respect themselves enough. anyway, who lives in this life with no trouble? everybody does. so just live it, face it and solve it.
2007-01-15 11:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by williams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about that but you cannot blame people who wants to get rid off themselves.... sometimes they just cant handle it and they cant take the pain away.. im on that situation right now... i wanted to die so bad but yeah i cant deny it that theres something inside me that prevents me from killing myself.. i dunno why but its just weird... and maybe that man youve known have just given up.. i feel the same way.. i just wanted to give up... cuz i guess my life sucks...
2007-01-15 11:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by darkmaterial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really cool of ya man, and sorry for ur loss
2007-01-15 11:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by BigfnD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow.
2007-01-15 12:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋