since I had a miscarraige I've always wanted to atually have a baby, I've dreamt about it forever and I love holding my sister's baby. but I dont have a boyfriend, I don't have a guy whos interested and I really want to have a baby... everyone says I'm way too younge to have a baby.. what should I do?
2007-01-15 11:16:32 · 14 answers · asked by Rawka'D 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I'm 17. many of you have stated you needed to know that.
2007-01-15 11:24:40 · update #1
Don't have a baby unless you can afford one, they are very expensive! Why not live your life? go to school, get a job, travel! Follow your dreams first! 17 is way too young you have a lot of life ahead of you!
2007-01-15 11:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 22...not sure how old u r..but ive always been the same way since I was very young i wanted a baby, my feelings never changed, whether i had a boyfriend or not. But now that ive been with my boyfriend for over 5 yrs, and we both want a baby, i realize that its a lot better this way and things change a lot when u get older..im still learning that.I totally know where ur coming from but i think u should wait til u have a steady relationship with someone who wants the same things as u do. Good luck, I feel ur pain
2007-01-15 11:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you know yourself if you are ready to have a baby. Do you love holding the baby, or are you ready for a lifelong commitment? Do your friends and family support this decision? Have you ever spent a long time being solely responsible for an infant? Can you financially support a baby? Have you completed your education? Not that these are deciding factors, merely considerations. Many people have babies and continue their education.
If you are really serious, you can go to a fertility clinic and purchase sperm and be artificially inseminated there. Or there are sperm banks where you can purchase the sperm and a kit for doing AI's at home.
Hope this has helped.
2007-01-15 11:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by calgaryjenhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your in your 30's there is no rush to have a child I'm assuming from this question that you are not in your 30's so why dont you take up a new part time job like being a nanny? or babysitting? or even working at a daycare?? You will get you baby fix and still be able to go out and date and club and go to work without having to worry about another young being that completely and utterly relies on you every second of every day.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 11:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...i actually really understand what you mean. I'm sort of in the same boat except i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 1 year and a half ...but he and i agreed to wait until we are both finished with our college and have everything settled so that if we did have a baby it'd have the best life possible...so just keep in mind what kind of life your child would have if you had it now compared to if you wait until you have more to offer a baby.
good luck with everything =) sooner or later it will all work out and you'll have your baby...it just might be better to wait until later.
2007-01-15 11:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Me =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding a baby is much different than actually having a baby. It's huge responsibility. Not sure how old you are, but you should really wait until you are married. Being a single parent is the hardest job ever! It will be worth the wait.
2007-01-15 11:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i've got consistently wanted my very own infants, and that's my greatest opt to have my very own infants sooner or later. yet is it stupid to have infants whilst im purely sixteen? I havnt complete college yet, so if i do get pregnant, i will ought to drop out off college... that's my greatest opt to have infants and that i've got consistently dreamt of it. Do you think of it is purely too early to alter into pregnant? Many little ones have their very own infants now a days... So, do you think of i ought to start a family members now?
2016-10-31 05:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be plenty of time later. The idea of children is a wonderful thought but once you have them you cannot change your mind. They exhaust you, you get very little sleep, they cry a lot, they cost a lot to feed and diaper. It is not a challenge to take on without a stable partner in your life.
2007-01-15 11:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? If you're in your teens or very early twenties then yes, you're probably too young to have a baby.
If you're older than that, try looking into sperm banks and artificial insemination.
2007-01-15 11:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by hiskonstantine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are in your 20s good luck the baby will come
2007-01-15 11:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋