My fiancee has a married couple that he's friends with...he's very close with the husband and he's know them since high school. I on the other hand, I would prefer that he keep me FAR FAR from this couple. I don't like them at all. They are triflin, but I wouldnt tell him not to stop hanging out with them..not that he would anyway. But he went to their wedding in June...he gave them 200 hundred bucks as a gift and they sent him a thank you card in late November..hahahaha. Ugh..I dont like them at all. Does your sig other have friends you dont like? I dont really want to be around them...I can be nice...but I dunno...how do I deal? Ima have to be around them for the rest of my life.
2007-01-15 11:07:10 · 6 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nah..there are some very nice other couples...just not this one. I repeat...they are triflin! I do not like them....for more than one reason...lol...
2007-01-15 11:28:08 · update #1
well u can be mature bout it first by letting ur significant other know how u feel cause the last thing u want to display is immaturity when ur red to go or when ur not willing to join him on a date or something w/them.. at least if he knows before hand then he'll know how to deal... 2nd when ur around them just try to be as pleasant as possible w/out feeling that u have to walk on eggshells and be urself.. Who says that u have to get along and befriend everyone u meet?????????
2007-01-15 11:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can almost tell what a person is like by the friends that they keep. tell him how u feel about this couple, my ex had friends toward the end of our marriage, the local drug dealer in our neighborhood, the guys who liked to hang out in the yard and smoke dope, i didn;t like it but let it go, than all of a sudden he informed me he had another woman, so my husband had indeed become one just like the company he was keeping, and the friends he had. put your foot down now, if he refuses to hear u, than maybe he isn't someone u should marry. as eventually it will come out how u feel about these people, better to come out now than after your married.
2007-01-15 19:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has a work friend and his wife that I am not realy wild about. I try make sure I am busy when he is going to go hand out with them but sometimes I can't get around it...so I suck it up and try to make the best of it and my husband usually lets me go do something I like as a thank you for doing that for him.
2007-01-15 19:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Airlantiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you'd better suck up and deal with the fact that these are your fiance's friends and that YOU don't get to choose which one's he keeps and which ones he dumps. If you don't like them then maybe you'd better not marry the guy since they've been friends for some time and he doesn't HAVE to get rid of them because of you.
2007-01-15 19:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have your standards too high. Or perhaps you are threatened/jealous by the fact that your fiance has a past history with his friends that you can't relate too. Do you only want him to hang out only with your friends?
Just be civil, cordial and deal with it.
2007-01-15 19:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you respect your husband then tolerate his friends
be cool . but not overly friendly
showing false friendship will only encourage your husband
to see them more.
2007-01-15 19:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋