I would like to avoid this. Please share your story.
2007-01-15 10:51:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not only did I keep in touch with my child after my divorce I have custody of her. Don't ASSume that every person who is divorced never kept in touch with their children.
2007-01-15 10:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didn't keep in touch with my son as much as I should have and i know that but the reason i didn't was because every time i would call to talk to my son my exhusband would get on the phone and either start saying stuff that he knew would cause me to lose my temper, heck hes already gone as far as hanging up on me more than once.. another reason is because when I would go down to see my son my husband would try to touch me, a hug, a kiss and he lost that right a long time ago..
Not to mention that he would call me constantly usualy several times a day leaving messages on my voice mail about how much he missed me and it was all my fault .. one minute he was all peaches and cream to me then the next i was the worst person in the world for leaving him..
2007-01-15 19:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad said he didn't keep in touch with us or our half sisters because it hurt too much to remember he wasn't part of our daily lives anymore or because he thought he was intruding on our lives with our step dad when he moved in. I think he really is trying to express how he felt and what he thought at the time but in retrospect those are all really bad reasons. Unless you have done something to hurt them on a long term basis (like you are violent, and they are afraid of you/hate you) I think kids always want to know that their parents are there for them and they love them. Even if your kids are mad with you for the divorce, or they are teenagers with the usual related angst.
2007-01-15 19:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by ggs1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad didn't. He still hasn't. If he doesn't want to then he is a bigger butthole then i thought. But im 11 so i can't say nothin'. Im 10 years apart from my is & 11 years apart from my brother. So yeah. My crush is horrilbe. Oh sorry bout that.
2007-01-15 18:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Green With Envy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't imagine 'not' seeing my kids after my devorce.
And any parent who chooses to alienate themselves from their kids is worse than a murderer, he/she are just plain 'nothings',
the worse kind of 'loosers' there are..
Any parent who does such a thing is 'evil' in my books..
And I hope they have a miserable, pitiful life!!
2007-01-16 00:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because my Ex-wife, spent seven days and nights a week, bad mouthing me. I couldn't beat that problem, and the kids, believed her, and then said they weren't interested in seeing me.
2007-01-15 18:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your kids youll never want to not be in there lives.
2007-01-15 18:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question does not apply to me, sorry.
2007-01-15 18:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too sad.
2007-01-15 18:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋