I know u can say I'm sorry put what if u KEEP being mean to the person how do u be nice to the person? I always get aggresive. idk why it just always happens how do u STOP?
2007-01-15 10:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thats kinda weird... isnt "sorry" and "i love you" is the hardest words to say? it seems like its pretty easy for you... maybe you dont really mean it... do you? ^.~
2007-01-15 10:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you are going to get angry, or aggressive, just say you need a few minutes to be along and cool down. Go for a 10 minute walk, and you'll feel much better, and ready to tackle any issues with a fresher mind. Just remind yourself that it is not the end of the world if people are different than you, and that you need to accept it, and maybe give in on your side some more to reach a compromise... the rewards are worth it.
2007-01-15 11:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you care about somone, you're nice to them. Its something that comes hand in hand. Maybe you just don't care enough about that person. And the reason why you get agressive might be because something happened between you 2 and ur still not over it. Learn to put the past behind you, we cant change it, we just have to learn to deal with it.
2007-01-15 11:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self discipline baby. When you say you're "sorry" make sure you mean it and prove it by not doing whatever it was you're appologizing for. If you repeat your action than the other person will view you as not trustworthy. Stick to your guns girl!
2007-01-15 10:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from that person and try to be extra nice when ur around them
2007-01-15 10:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always tell them that when you say sorry you mean it but you find it hard to stop.
Be honest with them.
2007-01-15 11:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by vampirequeen_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit your guilt with total sincerity.
2007-01-15 10:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by katrinasfather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋