i do i feel everso down at the moment. i would like a job but i am waiting for my grandaughter to go to a new school, i don,t have no friend where i live. i walk around on my own, i get real bloody lonely, i want someone i can go and have coffee with in the daytime. i have some friends from church but they are always busy with other people. i feel no one likes me, and i am not a nice person.
2007-01-15 10:44:54 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Have you ever thought about going to a women's club or something. My Sister and I joined a women's bowling league. It lots of fun and we've met a lot of people. Maybe even go to some kind of classes like pottery or ceramics. That's also lots of fun! Theres lots of women that are in your position that go to thoughs places.
Try them out if you don't meet anyone at least you'll have some fun. But I guarantee that you'll meet someone!
Have fun and hope you find someone you can hang with!
2007-01-15 10:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Job will help with being social with others all day. People are so busy now a days, I could not spend time with a friend as I'm pulled in different directions constantly. Most likely its not you, just people are so busy. You could try joining the YMCA, or you could sign up for dance lessons to get social surroundings until you can go out and get a job. Don't feel badly, its not you, its todays life, computers were suppose to make life easier, now does anybody agree that it has? Good luck and soon enough you'll be begging for peace and quiet, like I do!
2007-01-15 10:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking yourself is the first step. If you don't like yourself then sit down and figure out why? Then write down what you can do about it and start trying. Nothing in life is easy and we can't fix everything but you have to try. Start by finding something constructive to do besides "walk around". is there somewhere you could go and volunteer a few hours? A club or group you can join?(book club, exercise club etc) ind things to do that will get you out and about meeting different people and trying different things. It takes time to fit in to a new place and into new people's lives. You need to put your best face out there and show people your good qualities and be for you know it you'll be doing okay. Hang in there!
2007-01-15 10:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reaching out to other people that you know. You might be surprised, because some of them may feel the same way that you do and wish that they had a friend. You will never know until you try. Never give up, tomorrow is another day and we never know what it will bring our way. If you want to have friends you have to be a friend. There are a lot of lonely people out there, try being more open.
2007-01-15 11:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by PegSl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes life seems bad but theres always something that could be worse than the situation your in just be happy your alive and live it no matter if you have no friends or a hundred friends.i don't have many since i quit drinking and doing drugs but at least i got away from that before it was too late so be happy with who you are.
2007-01-15 10:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by shane w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, work on changing yourself. Why do you think you are not a nice person? Do some charity work. Volunteer. Mybe you can help out at your granaughter's school. You will feel better about yourself and make new friends.
2007-01-15 10:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a gym. Your anger is emotions built up inside. Some simple stretching and aerobic exercises will RELEASE that anger, your metabolism will go up, and you will feel like a totally different person.
A bonus, people who go to gyms like to hang out with people who to go gyms. Especially new comers.
2007-01-15 11:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be weak life is what you make out of it.
MAKE IT THE BEST IT CAN BE.
BE, HAVE, DO
not
Do, have, be
Start BEING
2007-01-15 10:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by SiCKnDAhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world, I wish you lived by me, we could go have coffee. Just take comfort in the fact that you are not alone, so am I!
2007-01-15 10:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY YOU HAVE CONTROL OVER YOUR LIFE...........LET YOUR GRANDDAUGHTERS' PARENTS WORRY ABOUT HER AND GO LIVE THE LIFE YOU'VE EARNED.
2007-01-15 10:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋