Your angry because you're in a slump. Get out of it, go out to do something you've always loved. Study with friends so you don't get all angry and stuff. Also try to work in public, that way you won't get all worked up because you don't want to embarrass yourself.
2007-01-15 10:44:58
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answered by lilly 2
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I'm 35. You have not ben thought how to be content and look at the good. You are not going to be able to save the world from what is attacking it. Just do your part a day at the time. Look at the good times and don't dwell on the bad. Do the things you do not like but have to so that you can get on with the good. Learn that some times it is easier to say ok and not do something (may have to pay for it later) or go ahead and do the deed and get it over with. Read a few books like Andrew carniage (sp) "How to win friends and influence people" and the book of prverbs from the bible. You will learn a lot about human nature. Do not let people make you mad. This takes practice. You think and handle things better when calm. If someone makes you angry they control you. Stay calm and deal with the problem. Deal with your problems one at the time calmly by what is in front of you at the moment. You will get nothing unless you work for it. Learn how to talk to people and you will not have to work as hard (note the book). Look at the good and let the bad go. There are other things to do while waiting on the computer to load a page. Listen to the song on the radio or actually look at the tv. You can even pet the dog.
2007-01-15 18:54:24
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answered by ronnny 7
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That is very common and normal.
At age 17, you are starting to be aware of yourself, your own ideas, and your own view of the world. Also, you are being made aware that other people have different ideas about things. Each of you think they are the only one that have the correct ideas. (ie. parents)
The truth is, either one of you can be right, or both of you are right and just have different view point. Unfortunately, you are not aware enough to realize this.
What you called "bullshit" in the book, is actually there on purpose. One of the very important skills you will learn is to eliminate extraneous information and to filter out only the relevant information for the particular problem. If they just get to the point, you will never learn this skill.
About computer being slower than normal. Instead of getting angry, try to analyze why it is slower than normal. Usually, there are other programs (unnecessary) running that is consuming resources. Shut them down. There is a reason for this.
One thing you will have to be careful is, DO NOT get into the habit of seeing your whole surrounding as negative and that everybody is out there trying to get you. This negative view point is very hard to break once it becomes your habit.
2007-01-15 18:54:14
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answered by tkquestion 7
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This is completely normal. You can blame a few things:
a) hormones
b) adolescence- it really is true. you're stuck between being your own self and also having to live up to your parents expectations even if you disagree with some of their desires or ways. But always remember they want the best for you (I'm 22 and used to hate my parents. Now I am married with 2 kids and now I wish I would have never hated them like I used to because they were right and only wanted the best for me!)
Also, there is such thing as winter depression (don't know what kind of climate you live in). But being depressed will make you get mad at things that normally wouldn't bother you.
Keep your head up and stay cool. When you get really mad, try to think about all the great things in your life. Things you normally take for granted...like being healthy and having your limbs intact...having a warm bed...
Or...just go get a milkshake and turn up your stereo full blast lol
2007-01-15 18:47:18
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answered by Brittany A 2
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lol... (I'm laughing bcuz I have the same problem) the best way I could sum up the reason y u'r so angry is probably because ur stressed. maybe bcuz of school being hard or ur parents being hard on you. I think you could stop/control ur anger by just venting. U could also do sum of ur favorite things 2 release ur anger. For example, if ur favorite thing is to skate with your friends, then do that. It could really help. Or! go 2 the gym....
the part about studying I completely understand! u could just get a tutor or ask a teacher to help u.
the part about the computer.. lol...well, just dont go on websites or pages that might slow ur computer down lol
hope that helps :-)
2007-01-15 19:05:28
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answered by naughtygirlof06 2
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What are you afraid of? The feeling you are experiencing harbors fear. They go hand in hand. Fear Anger and Retribution. All in order. I get easily annoyed with some, but I have learned to control my anger by pin pointing my emotions. I figure, I am in control of my emotions, to be a better person. You will probably get pissed at my answer, but it is true. Being a teen is tuff! I know cause that was 12 years ago for me. Good luck broseph! And take a deep breath!
2007-01-15 18:46:40
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answered by djzlyric 4
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It almost looks like anxiety. It happens to many teens because of hormones and all that. i have the same problem sometimes. the best thing you can do is to talk to someone about it, maybe talk to your parents, and try and find a hobby or something that relaxes you. There are also some people who are naturally angry because glands in your head give out more of whatever gets you ticked than they really should. they have anger management programs for that and therapists. just try and relax, exercise or play an instrument or a sport or find something to take your anger out on, and you should probobly to someone about it.
2007-01-15 18:46:38
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answered by skitch 2
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wow, I can relate to you in a lot of ways. I'm much older then you, however, I am angry too. I know my anger stems from a few things that have happened to me in the past couple of yrs. Maybe you should look back, and reflect. Did something happen to you ? I since then have decided I'm not a nice person when I'm angry, and, I've tried to change. I can tell you right now, things are so much better, and I hope they will get better for you too. Good luck, email me if you need to talk. ~~~
2007-01-15 18:45:23
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answered by Anonymous
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i am 26 years old and i have the same problem as u. one thing always be sure if u r angry thats only because u r right and not arguing for nonsense. you have to learn accepting your faults and thats what makes u a grown up. 2 days back i went with my mum to a doctor and i was really impressed the way that doctor was over-polite!!! i was left wondering do we still have polite people on earth like that !!! though physicaly he was not the kinda chocolate boy but then that humble attitude made him look so cute and attractive....
remember getting angry brings no solution ...
DONT BE PART OF THE PROBLEM , BE PART OF THE SOLUTION.
chant the hare krishna mantra..
hare krishna hare krishna
krishna krishna hare hare
hare rama hare rama
rama rama hare hare
all the best to u..me i am trying the doctor way...
2007-01-16 00:11:50
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answered by summer_gurl 2
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lol stay coool mannn!
Ok everytime you get angry or wtvr write it down, or talk to some1 about it..or take a lil break and get some fresh air..
next time you get angry just stop and think for a sec..about how angry you are at that moment, and how sooner or later that feeling will pass...that can work. Also think about how other ppl's lives may be worse than yours or how others are actually going through the same thing as you..like me, for instance.
2007-01-15 18:51:15
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answered by uglyyyyy 1
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I get angry easy and It doesn´t have to do with that ******** teenager ****, they say, I´m 19, an example of this is this question I made 2 days ago, I wanted to kill somebody,(exageration)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhLxJsO3vgTuwO0MAXPZmDjsy6IX?qid=20070113064944AACUnrz
What I usually do I listen to pretty good great hard music as Marylin Manson,AC DC,Rammstein,Korn,System,Gun´s Roses...
I like more music but this one is when I´m ungry( a lot of times), and I think is the people, as I can´t blame myself as I´m ******** good in all aspects, so it has to be them what drives crazy
Go to the gym, it´s great workout( with music)
But a great way to stop being angry is to stop thinking about that, find the reasons, see the good point, or think other stuff like good you are not like those motherfuckkers.
2007-01-15 18:55:14
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answered by Anonymous
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