Plus, she has lots of money that she inherited. Im really confused about what I should do. If she wasnt so fat, she would be perfect!
2007-01-15 10:21:40 · 31 answers · asked by emotional_reunions 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Politics
Do what John Kerry did with chunky Teresa. Marry her!
2007-01-15 10:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bawney 6 · 3⤊ 5⤋
I seem to remember a very similar question not long ago. Was it you? How can you say you like someone if you are ashamed to be seen in public with her. I sounds to me like you just want her because she has money. I have had many boyfriends like you. I don't have any money, but they had a free place to stay, and I was a fool to ever let any of them into my life. I understand how she could accept someone like you, because being overweight probably makes her believe that she can't do any better. But, she will eventually find out that she can. You had better hope for your own sake, that she never loses weight, because if she does, she will probably gain a great deal of self esteem, and then she will see you for the jerk you really are.!!!!
2007-01-15 10:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is has she been over weight her whole life and are her parents over weight? Genetics may play a part in a persons over weight problem. Yet, for the most part a simple exercise program will take of this. Depending on her physical activities and life style you can help her get to where you want her to be and in turn probably where she wants to be also. She sounds like she might be worth it with a little help.
2007-01-15 10:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by flavorsavoor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like her, just tell her you are concerned for her health(as you should be if you really do like her) and try to get her to do some things differently to lose weight. As for the money, if that's a factor that makes you stay with her, you're an @$$.
2007-01-15 10:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her you watched a show on the Discovery Channel about the health risks of overweight ppl. Tell her that you are really worried about her and some health risks that come with being overweight. BE SURE TO MAKE IT SOUND LIKE YOUR WORRIED ABOUT HER HEALTH NOT LOOKS!!! Then join a gym with her. Help her to eat healthy...and be sure to give her lots of encouragement and tell her that she is beautiful everyday. ..
2007-01-15 10:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the Marines
2007-01-15 10:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by AD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you like your overweight girlfriend's money. Deal with your insecurity soon or you are just going to end up hurting this person.
2007-01-15 10:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by pure_genius 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are ashamed to be out with her then you should let her go. She deserves to be with someone who doesn't care what she looks like. You are obviously just with her for her inheritance so let her go find someone who isn't such a jerk.
2007-01-15 10:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
So, basically you are with her strickly for the money. Listen pal, you are going to find out the hard way that looks and figures aint everything.
2007-01-15 10:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by tim g 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are only with her for what she can do for you. She would be the same person even if she lost weight. Are you really that shallow, or don't you know what that means?
2007-01-15 10:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Try to accept her for who she is and not be shallow and stay with her for her money because that's wrong. With what you said it comes across that way.
2007-01-15 10:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋