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well one also works with me and it has nothing to do with them personally it has to do with me wanting my boyfriend to come over and spend the night.also about the cleaness of my house they each pay me 150 amonth,not like i need it but it helps do u also think that is not enough to pay someone for rent for everything,i even do there launry!need advise asap please

2007-01-15 10:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by laase12 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

ok first the house is in my name only and second they hardly ever give me money there guys,so i do all the cleaning and cooking.also they both lived rent free with no jobs for 6 months and my bf lives in ca and i live in vegas so we both do the drive and he has never been to my house cuz i can never keep it clean enough with them there.i have a big heart would love to help everyone but i dont want to be 2 grown mens crutch to not find some where else to live u know.

2007-01-15 10:32:58 · update #1

13 answers

just tell them that you are wanting to live by yourself on a specific date and they have to find another place by then.

2007-01-15 10:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0 0

dam maybe i need to come live with u i will pay u 350 a month and i don't mind if your boyfriend comes and spend the night i will even do all of the cooking and cleaning does that answer ur question. U should have who u want in ur house. they r using u dont b a fool tell them to take on more responsibilty or get the hellout at that rate u will never have to worry about finding a roommate.

2007-01-15 10:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by SugNspice_1 2 · 0 0

I would just tell them you are ready to live on your own and want some privacy. I would give the 2 months to find a place and move or give them a month rent free and tell them they have 30 days to find a place. I think it would help with any hard feelings.

2007-01-15 10:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by luv3dbb 5 · 0 0

sit them down and say that you thought about it long and hard and you have decided that you want a bit of independence. You love them as friends but you think its time that they found somewhere else to live. I think that is way too little amount for you to be washing their smalls. I suggest you give them a month to find other accomodation.

You could always just say you and your boyfriend are moving in together and you want to live alone.

Good Luck x

2007-01-15 10:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can't just kick them out, they live there and pay rent, you have to follow the law and evict them, get ready, you're in for a fight.

2007-01-15 10:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-12-12 12:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by deibert 4 · 0 0

the rent is too cheap, riase them up to 300 each after all you are doing the laundry, perhaps they will move out on there own soon after.

2007-01-15 10:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 4 · 0 0

$150 is pretty darn cheap. that is just for a room. you are being taken advantage of. give them 30 days notice.

2007-01-15 10:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0 0

Why dont you move out and get your own place with your boyfriend and let your friends stay and pay their own bills. Dont be a doormat.

2007-01-15 10:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Irena G 1 · 0 0

Tell Truth.

2007-01-15 10:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by rajesh t 2 · 0 0

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