I been trying all week and im still not attracted to anyguys. When a gay guy rubs me i wanna puke. Since im bad with women i been giving homosexuality a chance and its not working. im still attracted to women.
2007-01-15 09:49:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i had sex with a guy and it was painfull and gross
2007-01-15 09:49:35 · update #1
You can't turn gay.
Stay with women.
Do yourself a favor.
In doubt?
Use either my messenger or e-mail
Rob.xxx
2007-01-15 09:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It has been said before, but I will repeat it. You can't turn yourself Gay. You are born the person that you are, straight, gay, or bisexual.
If you are bad with women, try sitting down and asking yourself what happened with girlfriend #1. Did I possibly say something or do something to make her mad? This might be something as simple as saying that you love her, and she wasn't ready for that type of commitment yet and it scared her away. Was it something that you didn't do that made her mad? She told you that she loved you, and you didn't say it back because you were afraid of commitment at that point? Do this with all of the relationships that you have had and I am sure that you will find a common thing that you did or didn't do that caused the breakup.
OR, you could just be hooking up with the wrong girls. Try going to a different place to find somebody to date. If you go to bars and meet a girl and it always turns out bad, pick up a hobby and join a group. You may not find a girl right off in that group, but you may find one soon, plus you will be doing something that you like to do and having fun doing it.
You would know if your were gay or not, so don't try and change to something that you aren't. Watch the movie "What women want". I know it's a chick movie, but in it there is a meaning that many men should work on. I won't say what it is, but if you truely watch the movie you will figure it out.
2007-01-15 10:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you're thinking.... In order to be either bisexual or homosexual you have to have an attraction to the same sex.
You have said you're not attracted to the same sex and when somebody who is gay rubs up against you you feel sick so please try to explain to me why in the world you would have sex with somebody of the same sex if you weren't attracted to the person in the first place??? Just because you're not good with the opposite sex doesn't mean you "have" to be gay... Generally, in my opinion anyway, your sexual orientation isn't something you decide...it's there whether or not you want to be that way. If you're meant to be bi/homosexual something in you will find an attraction to the same sex and you clearly do not have that so quit trying!!
Perhaps you're just finding the same things in common with the opposite sex, or perhaps you are just finding people who you don't geta long with so you feel that every relationship is doomed and therfore must be gay....
Stop looking at things saying I must be this way because of this or that... and start looking at things saying, I am attracted to the opposite sex, girls like this in me but dislike this quality, or most girls don't like to do this activity but I do, how can I make this work out for me so that I find happiness with this person? Or something liek that.
Don't turn to a life that you dislike before you tried it and don't force yourself into an uncomfortable situation if that's not where you want to be.
Good luck..I wish you all the best.
2007-01-15 10:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change who you are. I first tried it when I was your age and I didn't stop until I was 18. In my 7 years of acting I became a suicidal drug addict who hated everything. Then one day I realized changing myself was the dumbest thing I could do. As soon as I accepted myself and started being myself, most of my problems were gone. You're gay because of your brain structure. Your brain is shaped in a way so that you like the same sex. You can never change it. I remember being 11. At that age kids are extremely homophobic. Often even gay kids are homophobes at that age. What you need to do is drill this crucial fact in to your head so you cannot ever forget it no matter what anyone tells you: YOU ARE NORMAL! Whether you like girls, boys or kangaroos, it's who you are. It's who you were born to be and there's no reason for you to be ashamed. The people who say bad things about you are the nasty freaks. There is absolutely no real reason to think gay people are bad. People who think that way are nazis. Remember that. Stay true to yourself. Love yourself and be yourself no matter what. If people say bad things about you just ignore them. They aren't worth it.
2016-05-24 17:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told your parents that you are not gay yet. That is a trying and troubling experience for most people. All you can hope for is that they love you for who you are, and not who they want you to be. As far as work you should not have to worry. Just be your self. If people want to think things about you just let them. You owe them nothing of an explanation of your heterosexual life style. There is no wrong and there is no strange. Do what makes you happy.
As far as dating just go with who you are attracted to. Of course always use a rubber. There are a great many STD out there in the straight life style. So be care full.
But trust your self.
And be true to your self.
B
2007-01-15 10:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lol that's because you can't turn yourself gay. Just because you're "bad" with women doesn't mean you should give up on them. You might find your match eventually. By the way, you will always be straight, you shouldn't even have had gay sex.
2007-01-15 09:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change what you are. You are what you are -- to you sex with a guy is gross -- to me sex with a woman is gross. I have lots and lots of straight friends -- they are my friends, but they can't change anymore than I can.
Stop worrying about it. Be friends with your gay friends and wait for the right woman to come along. It isn't that you are not good with women, it is just that the correct one hasn't come your way.
Now stop worrying. Believe in yourself, you are wonderful.
Peace,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-01-15 11:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..you must try harder. We need all the gays we can get. Don't worry about the puke....unless there's whole corn in it. ! You do chew your corn well don't you? Cuz if you eat corn and don't chew it into mircocorn niblits they will so come out whole when you barf! And let me tell you...barfing is time consuming. You've got to concentrate on your homo studies!
Please call me if any other gay guy rubs you !!!
2007-01-15 10:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're concentrating hard enough. Just remember there is a lid for every pot. Don't give up. Maybe you're going after girls out of your league. Try lowering your standards. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 09:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dana-D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you serious, I guess I should inform you that people are born with their sexual orientation. You can't "turn" yourself into a homosexual.
2007-01-15 15:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your Mother could make you Homosexual, just buy her lots of Wool.
2007-01-15 10:32:46 · answer #11 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋