What should I do about my friend browsing hook-up sites?

Question

I'll try to boil this down to the basics. Me and my friend are both 21 year old gay males. We've been friends for about 6 years now. Throughout the past several months he has left a long-term relationship with a terrible boyfriend.

More recently, I have seen him looking for sex on Craigslist in our area basically looking for a quick hookup or something like that. I guess he doesn't know I've seen his ads on there every so often because I never brought it up.

We've both made those same dumb moves before, and we both talk about how much we think hookups are stupid and in our past. He doesn't tell me with whom or when he's hooked up, but potentially, it's been several times.

Am I a bad friend for not approaching him about it after all this time? and if so how should I go about bringing this up with him? Part of me thinks its his business, but another part thinks I should confront him?

I don't know. . . what would you do in the same situation?

Answer 1

Be careful there, unwanted advice has killed more than 1 friendship. Try to be supportive, but you need to be aware that Dear Abby probably made a few people mad in her day.
Just ask yourself if you would want to hear this from someone else? Why is he hiding his business from you anyway, is he embarassed or have you been judgemental in the past?
I say live and let live for now.