I've been seeing a 20yr old guys off & on now that loved 2 have intercourse with me but now only wants oral sex, i was the first 2 make him climax by oral, and its all he asks 4 now. should i be worried that he's gay.
2007-01-15 09:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by dragoncancer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
2 Reply 2 some of ur Q? Yes he has asked me 2 do anal but i refused and he's asked 2 have sex with me unprotected and i said no. And he's asked me 2 have his baby. Its been almost 2yr that we been dealing with each other. He's very spitfull so could it be cuz im not giving him what he wants he wont have intercourse with me anymore?
2007-01-15 10:39:18 · update #1
I don't know if he's gay but he sound selfish. YOu might want to get rid of this guy as it doesn't sound like you are enjoying yourself with him any longer.
2007-01-15 10:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see how that would make him gay. Does he do anything else that makes u think hes gay? Is he femminine in any way? Does he want to have anal sex with you? Is he really close with any men that maybe he spends more time with then you? Men love to have oral sex, my ex preferred that over intercourse also, and he was not gay, I was however! lol. Good luck.
2007-01-15 17:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sexually responds to a woman performing oral sex on him and you are wondering if he's gay? I'm confused. You do understand that being gay or straight has to do with HOW a person sexually responds, not the actual act, don't you? Cause that's like saying if a woman likes anal sex she must secretly want to be a gay man.
2007-01-15 18:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all the sensation from the mouth during oral is different from that of intercourse you can derive vast pleasure from it also if he wears a rubber during intercourse this knocks the sensation down alot he just likes the way you do it to him take the compliment try recieving it whilst you get it
2007-01-15 17:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by shannara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sounds like a healthy, typical American hetero male to me. Tell him he has to return the favor and see how quick he goes back to intercourse... or, if he's willing, enjoy!
PS A desire to have anal sex also does NOT make him gay. Some men/women couples do enjoy this, too. It's not just a "gay" thing.
2007-01-15 17:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Torchbug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit your whining and either suck it up (pun intended) or dump him. If you are so miserable, don't you think that your energies could be so much better spent on finding a more suitable relationship?
And just because somone enjoys oral sex, doesn't make them homosexual. Do you enjoy getting your p*ssy eaten? Are you a lesbian?
2007-01-15 19:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by ramman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh...no, lol. Unless he's invisioning you as a guy, he isn't gay. Some guys just greatly prefer oral sex to regular sex; it all depends on their preference.
2007-01-15 17:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's spiteful then leave him, no need to be with a jerk. Also he may just like being different, he doesn't sound worth it to me. Also he doesn't sound gay, just pseudo-kinky.
2007-01-16 05:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..he's gay. Guys who only want head are soooooooooo gay. And watch out...he may start doing you from behind. Very very gay............................ !
Next.....!
2007-01-15 17:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋