My family left Montreal when I was only five years old, they moved to a town of 3000 people in rural Nova Scotia. My baptist childhood friends abandoned me at 13 years. In Nova Scotia I find the people lacking in common interest, peasants, and sexually unattractive. I only have one friend, he is in Ontario for university. In elementary people thought I was evil, in high school I had no close friends. I kept bad company last year at university--- betrayed by friends... I went back to the same school last September, fell in love with an exchange student----- turns out she did not ever love me-- just wanted to use my body for sex--- (the closest I have ever been to someone-- yet she did not excite me-- as she did not love me) My only relationship destroyed, I descended into utter depression (Ive been taking the meds-- they don't do a thing.) left university... it was not fulfilling. I am19, lonely, and intend to back to long lost monteal to create a new life. Does this seem right to you?
2007-01-15 09:28:09 · 6 answers · asked by Cyrius 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
We are each in charge of our lives and our own destiny. However, there are good, interesting and attractive people everywhere, so you may need to look within yourself to discover the problem. Generally people treat us the way we invite them to treat us, so you may need to make a change in yourself to improve the situation. The move to Montreal may be a new beginning, but if you have had so many issues so often and in so many situations, also look at yourself and see if there are things you need to change.
2007-01-15 09:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be blaming everyone but yourself for all your problems. Maybe some of it was out of your control, but certainly not all. Until you find out what is eating at you, you'll never be happy wherever you go, or who you're with. Starting a new life is great but if you're just going to be the same person, then it won't do anything for you. If you really have depression problems that don't respond to meds, check with your Dr. about the surgery on your Vegas nerve. It was shown on the Discovery Channel last week and looks very positive. I wish you Good Luck.
2007-01-15 09:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems about right to me. I moved from my native Los Angeles and started a new life in the bright lights of Las Vegas, alone, at the age of 35. Sometimes you just need new surroundings to put things in perspective. Take the risk, what do you have to lose? Some advise, at 19, you should go back to University (perhaps in Montreal), and enjoy the experience.
2007-01-15 09:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Smokin' Dragon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. you should go. you have had a really hard time and desrve to start over. no one should have to go through that. go. start a new life. pretend it never happened. the past is in the past. besides, the past is so yesterday. and one more thing. you should pray. if you pray, things will get better so much faster, because God will be on your side!!
2007-01-15 09:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_brunette527 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its almost funny that you see everything that you wrote down, but you don't understand it. do you really think that you've had dozens of people "betraying you and using you" and that the problem is with them? i understand if one person here or there doesn't like you, but everybody?
my advise you don't need to create a new life, you need to create a new you.
best wishes
2007-01-15 09:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by cheli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek the Lord...He is the lover of your soul...He will never leave or forsake you. He says if you seek him, you will find Him. Be Blessed.
2007-01-15 09:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋