When I am making love to a woman, how can I keep my erection?

Question

I have no problem when I am masturbating but SOMETIMES when I am making love, I lose it and then get frustrated and then am so worried about what she thinks that I am pretty much useless after that. I am getting a bit older but don't think that is it at all because I keep it up during masturbation. Any thoughts?

Answer 1

Well you've answered your own question. The reason you lose your erection during sex is because you are thinking about it too much and making yourself frustrated and tense. If this woman didn't want to have sex with you im guessing she wouldn't. But she's there, by choice which means she must like you. I suggest that you try other things rather than penetration like maybe she could masturbate you. When you feel like she's having a good time and you feel more relxed you should be able to have penetrative sex without any problems.
Don't worry about it, you just need to relax a little and take things slow.

Good luck x

Answer 2

try not to exhaust youself too much before getting down with your lady. If you want some stuf that will work like viagra but without any of the raging sid effects get some stuff called prelox blue, its only available on the net. You can get it from www.myhealthabc.com you fill in your details then you go through to the mall area and you can find it under mens health. There is also a link to the owners email so you can drop him a line and either ask for advice or if ask him not to call you (you may be embarassed by this). The guy is a professional and a pretty cool dude. you can just go in and buy the stuff. The smile on my old ladies face several times a week is testamony to its powers. It will help you keep it up without giving you any after problems. Good luck

Answer 3

U should ask him the following: 1.) Is he gay 2.) Does he find you attractive still 3.) Is he under any stress 4.) Is he keeping a something away from you that takes his mind of off having sex - If he answers no to any of these questions and he continues not to keep an erection you should give him viagra or you both can try role playing.

Answer 4

This usually happened when I was banging an ugly chick. Short of throwing a bag over head, shut your eyes and imaging you are making love to a beautiful woman. When you jack off, who are you thinking about? The ugly homeless women you gave a buck to or the hot cashier at the convenience store?

Answer 5

I saw once on the larry david show this guy used tabasco sauce to maintain a erection he put it in his rectum. No lie he swore that it lasted like 3hrs better then viagra.

Answer 6

tell your self that your masturbating,or some other thoughts that will fool the mind.

Answer 7

it happens man try some cream or a finger, i go mental and start thinking bout things

Answer 8

Try taping a Popsicle stick to it.