or once it is over that's it...you cannot be friends....can you stay friends with your ex???
2007-01-15 09:09:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am good friends with 3 of my exes. I think lesbians can do that because women usually are good friends as well as lovers. Thats been my experience anyways. There are a few that where just bad relationships that I dont keep in contact with though.
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2007-01-15 09:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, The 2 major relationships I had I got pregnant. So I do stay in touch with them. My girlfriend don't like it,but they don't come on to me or anything like that. We only talk cuz of the kids. On the other hand, I let my girlf talk to her ex and let her come over to hang out and that was a bad idea. They would run off together and have sex and lie to me. It all depends on if they still have feelings. I have NO sexual or any feelings for my exes. My girlfriend dosen't belive me but I know. It's been a while since I found out they were messing around so it seems they have let go of their past......I hope. Anyhow the answer to your question would depend on the trust with your current partner and if the exs are actually over each other.
2007-01-15 09:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im no longer in touch with my ex-husband who I was married to for alot of years, but am with a couple of guys Ive been out with. If the relationship I am in now ended though, I wouldn't want to see him as it would more than likely hurt every time I did, so if that one finishes that would be a case of once it's done, it's done!
2007-01-15 09:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends, both of my ex-partners are great people, but one of them does not want to still be friends, so I respect that. I just tell them, if you ever need anything I am here, just ask, because I still care about both of them.
2007-01-15 09:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jordan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I always stay friends, and never go out on a bad word, no matter how much I am provoked. That way feelings aren't hurt. Never lose a friend!
2007-01-15 09:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went out with a bloke for two years, i trusted and loved him and knew he felt the same way with me, until one night he didnt come home and a week later told me across the phone he had met someone else, couldnt tel me face to face. we broke up. its either all or nothing with me. two months later he phones to ask if we could get back together. i told him where to go!staying friends with ex lovers would make me depressed,knowing someone else has him and i still love him. its better to break away and find someone new.
2007-01-15 09:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One of them passed away, two live on the other side of the country, and one lives on the other side of the world. So I will say not really. But I am a nice guy, they all still liked me when we split.
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2007-01-15 09:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always stayed friends with them all.
2007-01-15 09:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Robb the B.D.C. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have only spoken once in 20 years.
2007-01-15 10:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly - No! The whole "new partners/old partners" thing is a bit too weird!
2007-01-15 09:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋