Okay i wanna say i am head over heels for him because i have him on my mind 24/7 and he has the chick he likes on his mind but he knows i love him. I get him mad at me once and awhile cause i get depressed when he talks about the girl he likes i dont show it all the time but words fly out and he kinda figures it out. There accouple reasons why he wont date me. 1 he likes this other girl andd 2 because hes 18 and im 16 but my friends are the same age and well lets just say he came to my sweet 1 and we teased him bad... and got friendly with one of my best friends. I dont want to hate him for that and i really cant hate him but it seems like im not good enough. After school he was talking to the girl he likes and i tried to ask him something but he wouldnt talk to me. after i told him i had a question i had to ask him but i forgot it trying to get his attention and he said sry i was talking to a hot chick but when i say im ugly he stops talking to me completely. what do i do?i need help!
2007-01-15 09:09:04 · 10 answers · asked by ~MommyLovesHerGirls~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is not interested in you and he feels you are trying to trap him into liking him. If you realley like him show that by ignoring him and date other guys ,try to keep a friendship with this one.What you are doing now is killing the friendship.
Keep that friendship going and maybe some day he will care for you as you want him to. Let him know you are dating others and when he talks about his girl you talk about your guy or guys what ever the case maybe. 18 years is not too old for a 16 year old . that is a cop out
2007-01-15 09:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to have a younger sister when you are trying to live your own life. But, believe me, as you get older starting in your late teens and twenties and beyond, you'll realize your sister may be the only real friend you have. All the friends you think are so great now kind of disappear. Friends come and go, but your sister will always be there for you. I know 12 year old people are annoying and rude and immature, but things will change when you're 21 and she's 18 and when you're 26 and she's 23 etc. You will realize she is going to be the best friend to talk to about your problems and help you with your issues. This is the person who is probably going to be your bridesmaid one day. This is someone you can go to Europe with one day. Try to be nice to her and be patient with her. Buy her small gifts and share your clothes and things with her. When she is older and has the chance to help you out and when you need her, she will remember how you treated her and how nice you were to her when you had the upper advantage. If you be nice now, you will have a best friend for the rest of your life. Your parents love you both the same. Parents just try to make allowances for younger kids. All parents are like that. Little sisters are easy to deal with. If you are nice to them, they'll be nice back. It's the older sister who sets the tone for the relationship. If you keep her secrets and help her and share with her, you may soon find you have one of the best friends anyone could ask for. Middle school people are definitely annoying, but soon you will both be beautiful young women. Don't waste the precious gift of having a sister. Don't waste all the fun times and memories ahead of you. If you are patient with her now, you will see the rewards of that for years to come and for the rest of your life. Otherwise, one day when she has her own life she may realize that you were never really there for her. I hope that helps. Good luck.
2016-05-24 08:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds likeyou are acting a bit desperate and that might be turning him off. There is nothing better than confidence when it comes to getting a guys attention! So give that a try..feel better about yourself and show it, dont chase him that will make him run from you, and fast!
Good luck Hun!
Oh boy, to be a teenager again! wouldnt that be something!
2007-01-15 09:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - quit putting yourself down. Especially in front of him because it sounds like you're fishing for compliments which is a real turn off. Secondly, he is interested in someone else; getting mad at him is not going make him stop liking that person. Finally, find something else to take your mind off this guy, he may not be interested in you.
2007-01-15 09:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're more infatuated with this boy.
However, you need to realize something: HE LIKES SOMEONE ELSE!
You're 2 years younger then he, which may not sound like much but when you realize that he's going to go to college soon, if he isn't in college already, you have to realize that it would never work.
I'm sorry, but he just doesn't like you. Don't try to break them up because you're destined to fail and be heartbroken if you try.
2007-01-15 09:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It seems like he's not interested in you. If you like him and he knows it but he's being a jerk because he think's ur not good enough for him, he's not good enough for you. Stop wasting your time waiting around for him.
2007-01-15 09:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by chickidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give this guy space you know that he likes someone else but yet your being so persistence about it .....that was very rude/ self fish of you to do when you know he likes the girl...to conclude hes not that much into you so forget him and move on
2007-01-15 09:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're disrespecting yourself and begging for crumbs from this guy's banquet. Stay away from him and get together with other people you like to go to fun stuff.
2007-01-15 09:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date someone esle it will get you over him
2007-01-15 09:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by starbrigth001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
he aready has a girlfriend
move on
2007-01-15 09:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋