I have a freind E.W who cant let her freind go (L.M) . if she sees me with L.M she will freak out and be mad at me. L.M and I can hardly hang out any more, and its hard, the worst part is when ever I go to L.Ms house we have to hide from E.W bhecause they are neighbors, It is really hard. what should I do???? any sugestions.
2007-01-15 08:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by linlid m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your friend what you like about the other friend and why you want to hang out with them. Some people don't like each other and that's ok, we're all different but it doesn't mean they can control who you choose to be your friend.
2007-01-15 08:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should drop E.W like a hot potato .That person sounds like She could become very dangerous .Tell her to chill or you can't be her friend anymore.Tell her that more than 1 person can be friends at one time. Good Luck...
2007-01-15 08:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by quiz buckler scoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E.W. is not a friend; too possessive and dramatic. Unhealthy friendships are a waste of time and energy. Up to you, be frank with E.W., if there's no understanding from him/her; carry on with your life. Good luck!
2007-01-15 08:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by DonPiano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that jumps into my mind is that neither are your friends. Friends don't get jealous and possessive but are glad when you have friends and help others. I don't say drop both but realize that real friendship is much more than you have with these two. Can you cultivate other friends?
2007-01-15 08:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EW is not your friend nor is she a friend to LM. drop her like a hot potato. If she becomes a threat get a restraining order.
2007-01-15 08:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by mutvulture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard I know when your friends do not get along. But it seems like you've got to make a choice. Only you can make it.
If it is just a disagreement between them. tell them you're not getting involved. they have to figure it out. and you like them both.
2007-01-15 09:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a woman and tell her what you don't like about her and her other friends that you got to go your way and she got to go her way people have to learn how to take pain in a good way without fighting just tell her like it is don't sugar coat it.
2007-01-15 08:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by littlemoma_30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up! Be friends with whom ever you please. If this upsets your other friends, who cares! It's your life, and you don't have to hide for anyone. If she was a real friend, she wouldn't ask you to choose!
2007-01-15 08:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP hiding.... you are aloud to be friends with whom ever you wish... its not really fair to the one friend if you are hiding her.... friends are friends ... its the other persons problem if they dont like so-n-so...
2007-01-15 08:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by curious!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm ya it looks like EW needs 2 get over herself. be friends with whoever you want. dont let her influence you. if she doesnt wanna be friends with you because of your other friends, shes a loser
2007-01-15 08:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋